can anyone explain what itreally feels like been used i really need to know.
2006-07-14 05:28:07 · 9 answers · asked by babo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
People use people all the time whether they know it or not. For advice, for conversation, for strength for support etc. But if your referring to a person who constantly wants you to give while they take then that form of using someone takes on a whole different meaning. To me, being used in that way would mean being used for sex offering no commitment in return. Or for money, asking you to pay for things, loaning them things while they have no attention of paying you back. Being used for a place to stay while they pay no bills and look for you to foot all the bills while they use their money for other things. Or always calling you up only when they have a problem but never once stopping to see how things are going with you. People use people in so many ways. It's just up to the person to decide when their giving becomes no longer a helping hand but a means to an end for someone else.
2006-07-14 05:39:48 · answer #1 · answered by Sxyblkdiva 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, first hand I can answer this one! It sure doesn't feel too good that is for sure. When you are always the one giving and getting nothing in return but, heartache, when it is always you doing things paying for things and nothing comes from the partner, time to stop it now before it gets any worse...The heart will ache for a while but, you will get through it.Good Luck!
2006-07-14 05:33:22 · answer #2 · answered by JACKIE M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay being used is like when you meet a guy right... and he wants to go out on a date with you and you meet his friends and you have a good time. then after a cople of weeks you'll get to know each other more and you really start to like this guy and then all of the sudden after a night on the town he'll ask you up to his apartment or w/e and he'll pressure you into getting in bed with him and you don't really want to but you also don't want to lose a really great guy. so you do it and week after week he'll do the same and one day you realize his using you to sleep with him so he can go back and boast and brag to his friends about you or lie and say how lousy you are in bed. that's what being used is.
2006-07-14 05:34:39 · answer #3 · answered by pinkqueen1824 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being used is hurtful and can lead to year of Anger and pain. You lose trust for other people and ask yourself over and over why me! But eventually you find someone you can trust and you get over it but you will always be angry at the one who used you.
2006-07-14 05:34:26 · answer #4 · answered by JENNLUPE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you wanna know,the meaning of been used or how it feels after being used?be clear!!
2006-07-14 05:31:11 · answer #5 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The love was no good, & you can't find the receipt !
2006-07-14 05:34:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know
2006-07-14 05:31:06 · answer #7 · answered by profdave99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it hurts
2006-07-14 05:31:33 · answer #8 · answered by sunshine girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
balls.
2006-07-14 05:31:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋