We love each other very much. we're really comfortable with one another and we have no problem sharing how we feel... We fight sometimes.. but who doesnt?
I don't think it's lust... I mean... I find him attractive, but I don't really know anyone else who does xP
I trust him, and I love him, and I can see myself with him forever..
But after seeing all these people get married and divorced... I mean, there are people who are married for like 20 years, and then get divorced??? And people who's husbands are perfectly fine, and everyone's perfectley happy, then one day he goes crazy and kills the family?!
I mean I trust my partner, but I'm sure those people did too...
Is there any way to really know?
2006-07-14 05:27:22 · 7 answers · asked by Chii666 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're allowing your fears to take control. You need to sit back and calm yourself down a little. Whatever happens in the world is out of your control. The only thing or person you can control is yourself. Your relationship sounds like it has all the ingredients for success...just go with the flow. Concentrate on what YOU two have and try not to worry about anyone else's drama's.
You know you have found the right one when all the pieces fall together deep inside of you....it's feels like coming home.
2006-07-14 05:39:42 · answer #1 · answered by mandydc3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u shd do some background checking first.....we cannot tell what will happen next so theres no way to know....sometimes i doubt it when its soooo perfect but thats me....if you really trust him, then why do you have to ask? sometimes marriage fail even the couple had been engaged for too long and was very much inlove when they do it....we cannot predict the future..many things unexpectedly happens...but we still go on because it makes us happy...there are marriages 'though that lasts till the end..so dont worry your self too much...
2006-07-14 12:38:27 · answer #2 · answered by bea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have a good relationship with good trust and communication. The last step is committment, if you never want to get divorced, make sure he places the same value in marriage as you do. If he thinks divorce is not that big of a deal or is understandable, don't marry him. Marriage is and should be a lifetime commitment. I know my wife will never divorce me, nor will I divorce her, we value the institution of marriage. As such, we do not waste time thinking of ways out, we try to think of ways to help eachother. You can never be certain, but as I said you sound like you have the proper foundations of trust, communication (key!), and knowledge of eachother. Unless you've left something out, it sounds like it might be worth a shot!
2006-07-14 12:33:53 · answer #3 · answered by Neuroscientist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, no-one can predict the future... and over time things change so much -- the way one feels now can change drastically depending on what life throws your way!!!
2006-07-14 12:33:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, but everbodies different for a feason i know people who have been together that long ang longer and are still happy and married.
2006-07-17 14:38:24 · answer #5 · answered by Robby V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing in life is guaranteed, Good luck :-)
2006-07-14 12:32:04 · answer #6 · answered by Karen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By his reaction.
2006-07-14 12:32:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋