my 2 year old is very busy all the time. She likes to get into weird stuff and the other day at the nanny's she cut her hair off . Is this normal 2 year old behavior or is my baby just a little wacky ?
2006-07-14 05:08:55 · 17 answers · asked by Dawn R 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
She is awesome. She has to do stuffs like that, It keeps the mother and daughter relationship good. Apart from that her mind is just curious like CAT she needs to learn stuffs. it is the right time for you to feed her with knowledge. YOU MUST STAY AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE WITH HER.
2006-07-14 05:12:42 · answer #1 · answered by Rohit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a professional clown and two year olds are my favorite people in the whole world. Why? Because they are new learners and the whole world is their toy! They are little learning machines...curiosity on two legs! By the time they're two, a toddler knows how to walk, is starting to talk and is usually at least acquainted with the potty training process. In a two year old's limited experience, this makes them a real, independent person! The problems tend to come in (i.e., the "terrible twos") when the child's demand for independence far exceeds his ability to cope with it. So we get these busy little bodies who want to run around and explore everything. They also tend to want to "help" you all the time, but they do not have the mental development, the manual dexterity or the physical coordination to be be much more than a walking disaster area. Then there are the obvious dangers that absolutely must be dealt with...staying out of the street, not climbing on things, etc. If your two year old was left alone long enough to both find a pair of scissors and give herself a haircut, a thorough "kidproofing" of the premises is order. Your nanny also needs to know that this must not happen again!
Unfortunately, saying the word "no" to a two year old is like waving a red cape in front of a bull. Unless a parent is patient and takes sufficient thought and care in how they discipline their two year old, constant confrontation will be the name of the game. Micro-managing a two year old is an exercise in futility. They tend to feign total deafness when you use the word "no," but expect you to obey instantly when they use it. Although it is hard for a lot of parents to do this, it is important not to get sucked into a two year old's temper tantrums. If the parent cultivates an attitude of indifference, the fewer the meltdowns the child will wind up having. Parents need to save their big reactions for big issues and not sweat the small stuff. (Trust me: This will come in handy again when your child becomes a teenager!)
One other thing...take a nap when your child does! You BOTH need one!
2006-07-14 06:46:24 · answer #2 · answered by madmoderate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal
2006-07-14 05:10:40 · answer #3 · answered by Ya-sai 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal......they are learning what things do and how they work. Being that active is very normal.... Just make sure that some one is watching her and teaching her what the objects are. Her motor skills are also developing, which is a good thing keep her busy and get her some books with the different textures and shapes.....
2006-07-14 05:15:36 · answer #4 · answered by Toya J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh dear.dont b nervous.this is 20th century n kalyug tooooooooooooo.children ve to b active.n they should b.after all they are the future citizens wen this india will move quite frward so to keep a pace wid it they ve to b really active from the beginning dear.u know parents mentality nt so broad as the upcming life is.no no its nrmal dont worry.she might ve seen smeone or abeautician cutting smeones hair.she might b trying it too
2006-07-14 05:14:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to control her and tell her it not normal to do that....it might helps
or have a nanny to control her...isn't that why u hired her for?
well, they can behave like that but they need to be undercontrol
and i saw a two year old in a store with her mother..she was forced to walk with the mother and i guess she was tired and can't walk...and start to cry......the mother threaten to put her in the car while shoppoing( yeah and she did, the child was in the car with 90 degrees out.)
remenber, she is two, she is trying to make it in real world and trying to do stuff....it like when u first drifve a car, what did u do?
2006-07-14 05:13:32 · answer #6 · answered by DivaStar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally normal. At that age you're learning EVERYTHING - language, motor skills, culture, taboos, rules, how to interact with family, how to interact with strangers, what's safe to eat, how to dress and use the potty. Think about it. Their muscles and bodies are growing, and so is their mind. So it's all in a state of hyperactivity.
2006-07-14 05:11:38 · answer #7 · answered by effin drunk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are learning new things and experimenting. they dont know what they are doing they just do it because it seems fun to them. or because they seen someone else do it. i have a two year old boy. and let me tell you he is a handful and a half. but like i said the world is still kinda new to them and they are learning and trying new things. good luck
2006-07-14 05:12:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not only 2 yr olds its all the time, it doesnt stop it gets worse
2006-07-14 06:56:50 · answer #9 · answered by Kim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its normal but dont worry i feel for u mine drives me up the walls every chance she gets and my brother is also 2 and he is just as bad unfortunatly i have heard that we are in terrible 2's and next is horrible 3's :(
2006-07-14 05:12:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋