Me and this female are good friends. I've been attracted to her, but I tell her how sexy she is, and we talk, and things like that but never anything further than that. I think she knows what I want. However, I'm kind of nervous because I'm afraid our friendship will end and plus she'll be mad at me for coming on to her. I don't want to do that. I do I make a move without making a move? Plus, Do you think I should go ahead and just make the move regardless of the consequences. I hate coming over all the time and never anything happening. I'm ready, I don't know if she is though. She always asks me, "So what's on your mind?" I'm like you don't want to know. If I told you you'd probably be mad at me. Sex is on my mind! I just haven't told or showed her what's on my mind yet. Also, based on the question she asked me, does it sound like she's waiting on me to make my move on her?
2006-07-14 04:41:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude, if you respect this woman as your friend, why are you so anxious to jump in the sack with her?? Why don't you take her out or something? REALLY get to know her. She already knows what you want and you're just lowering yourself to the standards of "most guys". Depending on what kind of relationship you're looking for will indicate what you should do next. You're just looking to hump the girl: go for it. You're looking to keeping her for a friend and maybe partner, hold off and get to know her better and get your face out of her panties.
2006-07-14 04:53:10 · answer #1 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start with a kiss on the cheek or a long hug. Or buy her flowers or a nice poem. Something to get her to start thinking in that direction. Or just come out and tell her how you feel. How will you know if you don't go for it? Something like, "I would really love to date you, and move our friendship to the next level." But be prepared to let it go if she doesn't feel the same way about you.
2006-07-14 04:51:07 · answer #2 · answered by ht_butterfly27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is totally waiting for you to make a move! Ihave done this before...and the guy never made his move, so we never hooked up! I recommend the next time you visit her to come right out and say, "damn girl! If you keep teasing me like this I am going to get some blue balls......you don't want my balls to be blue do you? If you're not interested in them now, just tell me and I will never mention them again....if you are....well, then now I know that I can make a move babe."
I think it is better to be honest and go for it than spend forever trying to read someone's mind!
2006-07-14 04:50:09 · answer #3 · answered by BlondeBooBoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if all you want is sex, you are not worth her time. If you like her for HER, and not her BODY, then tell her. at the same time, give her a bouquet of her favorite flowers. If she doesn't feel the same way, she will say something. It might break the friendship, but if she cares at all about you, even if she doesn't like you like that, it won't. Unless you have sex. That changes everything, and it will never recover if it isn't serious.
J. Ripley
2006-07-14 04:59:28 · answer #4 · answered by J. Ripley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOOOOOOOO! that question doesnt mean MAKE A MOVE ON ME.......you have to wait... make a move but something small... lyk ....try to kiss her on her cheek... hold her hand......than move ur way up... if she pulls away for n e of these things SHE IS NOT READY.... but when u move on (this takes time dont do it all at once) lyk a kiss on tha lips N SHE ACCEPTS IT.... then that means she is comfortable wit u BUT NOT READY TO HAVE SEX HOPE THAT HELPS U
2006-07-14 04:53:18 · answer #5 · answered by SofaKingBored23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow... thats complicated. I think when she seriously asks you whats on your mind i think you should tell her that you like her and go from there. Nobody got anything done by not taking chances. So take your chance and ask her how she feels about you.
2006-07-14 04:52:41 · answer #6 · answered by APgurl-NY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋