i went to church last week and this new girl out of NO WHERE starts aguring with me inside of church ... she then waits for me to exit church and we started fighting i dont even know the girl ... i feel feel ahamed that i fought in church ! it was not my fault the girl was looking for truplbe and disrespected me 3 times... I cant even walkinside church no more i feel like i did wrong..and all my firneds have stoped talking to me HAVE NO IDEA WHY?...why do i feel wrong? it was not my fault?
2006-07-14 03:41:47 · 9 answers · asked by ChuLAD3P0nC3 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Sounds like the new girl is a bully and she's terrorising everyone..they are probably scared that if they talk to you she will start bullying them too...
I will get a voodoo priestess to put a hex on her to leave you alone and to place a ring of protection around you...if she tries to do anything to you she will be instantly repelled by the forcefield...be confident about it.
Also get on the telephone and tell everyone what a bully she is to get some extra support. Don't stay quiet about it..bullies love that!
2006-07-14 03:48:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You'll get over it and so will your friends. I know it doesn't feel like it now, but it will happen soon. Do your friends hang up when you call, or is it really YOU who has stopped talking to them?
If you dwell on the feeling of shame, it will get worse. Remember, most people are too busy worrying about the things that THEY did that embarrassed them to spend a great deal of time worrying about your embarrassing moment!
Seriously, when I realized that I'm just not important enough for people to be constantly whispering about me behind my back, it made my life a whole lot better.
Apologize where you need to, then try to forget it. It just isn't that big a deal in this big, wide world.
2006-07-14 03:54:29 · answer #2 · answered by LazlaHollyfeld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said when you exited church you two started fighting. I really hope you mean verbally. As far as feeling bad, don't. If you feel you owe an apology to God that is between you and Him. As far as your "friends" do they know why the girl was on your case? Other than that I am sorry I don't know how to help you. We don't know what was said between you two or if it was your fault she was mad or not. Don't go to church service to socialize though. It was the same thing when I was younger and went to church service with my friends. Not going for the right reasons. Good luck.
2006-07-14 03:52:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to realize one thing. The closer you get to GOD the more you will be rejected by the people in the world. Because the world doesnt know or understand GOD. Maybe it was the Devil trying to make you stumble and give up your idea of knowing the Lord. It could be a number of reasons why you are being shunned by your "friends". try to find someone that knows "your friends" and "you" and see if they could shed some light on the situation. Honestly though if they could turn on you that quickly then i would question whether they are really friends or not. Imagine if you really needed someone to confide in, could you really trust them?
2006-07-14 03:53:59 · answer #4 · answered by Dana D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry about what happened. If you pray about it maybe you'll feel better or try explaining to your friends that it wasn't your fault.SometI'mes people find fault in others but sometimes the fault is on them. Their not being true friends if they are ignoring you. Well hopefully it will get better and im sorry . Good Luck
2006-07-14 04:03:47 · answer #5 · answered by Shay F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it would have been nice if you'd have controlled yourself better. You didn't - repent and move on. Meantime, don't harbor a grudge or dwell on what happened; put it in the past. If the other girls cannot do that - find other friends, but don't create problems with those other girls. Pray and pray and pray and remember that we are only responsible for OUR OWN behaviour and cannot control others. Try to be like Jesus - forgive them, pray for them and love your neighbors as yourself. It's not easy and I hope you can be stong. God bless you. ~Nisa
2006-07-14 03:55:47 · answer #6 · answered by newfsdrool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cannot judge about the situation unless i see it, and see the details of it. i only hear ur side of opinion, i need to hear what the other side says too.
but if that was the cause. then do what every confident man does, Don't give a dam about what other people think about you, and keep going. u force urself on them in the church, they like it or not you are in.
2006-07-14 03:48:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Have you prayed about this? Once you say sorry to God, leave it at that. If anyone wants to judge you then that's on them because they have no right to assume things. Once you've given it to God then you are free of any guilt.
2006-07-14 03:46:22 · answer #8 · answered by Song 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was it because you can't spell?
seriously tho, this would be a good opportunity to drop christianity and start living a real life.
2006-07-14 03:45:35 · answer #9 · answered by ChooseRealityPLEASE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋