I found out my bf was talking to some girl online inapproapriately via aim.These are some convos they shared:
my bf: lol, i was contemplating whether or not to get sorta drunk, and what to do about being horny
her:lol just have a nice beer and some porn
bf: hmmmm, dunno if i have any beer, and tired of porn plus, beer won't get me sorta drunk
her: wheres your woman
bf: not here
her: why not
bf: she's just not here
her: you screwd up didnt you
her: jk
bf: nah, she went somewhere tonight
bf -hmmm, i think i'll just start masturbating then
her -ok
bf-or maybe i already have started...
her: =-O
bf: ;-)i could pull the old stranger that's always fun
her:: does thta actually work
bf:: ;-) we should totally hook up if ur ever single again
her: you mean if WE are ever single again
bf: yeah, sure
bf: ;-)
her: lol
bf: k, gotta
told me he was "just joking around" and that he meant nothing by it. ...been dtng over 1 yr. nvr done this b4. wht should I do?
2006-07-14 03:29:10 · 11 answers · asked by silver 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump him....he is already cheating on you...A person does not have to have intercourse to be unfaithful to their partner. He is being disrespectful to you and your relationship. HOW WOULD HE FEEL IF YOU DID THE SAME?...It is only a matter of time till he 'hooks' up with someone on-line (or offline for that matter) and you don't need to deal with that (no one should). I wish you the best. Think about yourself and remember that YOU should be happy and deserve to be loved and respected.. P.S. There is a good man out there for you...don't settle for someone who treats you badly.Tell him something like "Obviously, I don't make you happy since you are looking to other women for attention so I NEED TO MOVE ON"....GOOD LUCK and GOD bless you!...and about him doing this for 'fun" and it being the first time....I don't think so....sounds to me like he's had many 'chat' with that girl already (and masturbated with her on-line)...who knows how many others.....He just happened to get CAUGHT this time.....YOU DESERVE BETTER!
2006-07-14 03:46:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
it'd be different if he was like ya your hott.... but he's saying they should "hook up".... he's not worth your time. he's a total jerk. even if you have been dating a year. i know its hard... but if he's done it once how many times has he done it and you just haven't found out. and what's going to stop him from doing it again.... when your out... he's a jerk and you could find someone better to be with.
2006-07-14 03:36:14 · answer #2 · answered by Terra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the fact that he said if she ever became single they should hook up. That's why I think you should kick him out.
2006-07-14 03:33:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say see ya, doesn't sound like he plans to be around long term anyway
2006-07-14 03:40:54 · answer #4 · answered by Right Wing Extremist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cold busted. "I was just fooling around" is the lamest excuse in the book. DTMFA
2006-07-14 03:33:19 · answer #5 · answered by anthonydavidpirtle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, that was a lame excuse. I would dump him because if he did that once, he's most likey to do it again.
2006-07-14 03:36:15 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Ms. Heart♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm.. you know.. if you still love him.. and you want things to work out then go! Just expect the worse... lessen your trust to him without his knowing.. so that if he broke up with him.. then it's not painful
2006-07-14 03:36:06 · answer #7 · answered by vhernice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him u can find somebody that love u and only u ok
2006-07-14 03:34:18 · answer #8 · answered by sassyd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. Especially if he doesn't actually know her.
2006-07-14 03:33:21 · answer #9 · answered by wmp55 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him
2006-07-14 03:38:00 · answer #10 · answered by sweetypie9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋