this guy is my friend who is going to be my bf soon but now its seem to me that he is avoiding me since 19/6 for no apparent reason. ive tried calling him but he jus refused to answer my call. i msg him he jus refused to reply mi. in our very last meeting he still tell me where are we going and etc. i can feel that he feels inferior because i have a lot of suitors. in order to make him feels better and that i really want to be with him and i care for him, i suggest that we go to university next yr so that we can be each other's support. this is the 2nd time he's doing this to me. the last time, he asked mi to leave with another guy who is a researcher, according to him he feels that he can provide mi with a gd life. after awhile he jus return to me asking mi to accept him again. and now this happened. all my close friends asked mi to forget about him. but sadly im still hanging on. he is 22 and im 20.
2006-07-14 03:26:51 · 15 answers · asked by rachelkelly 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He does not want you. Move on.
2006-07-14 03:30:06 · answer #1 · answered by skigod377 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this guy cannot make up his mind. He seems to be carrying excessive baggage from previous relationships. Sometimes some people just do not know how to move on and enjoy life. I know what u r going through cause i have met guys like that - they say one thing but their actions says the opposite and its makes u feel frustrated and confused if i were u i would stop calling him and if he does not call then that means he is not that into u so therefore u should move on. Its hard to do but u can do it girlfriend i have and it didnt kill me LOL.
2006-07-14 10:39:33 · answer #2 · answered by Cleo-Petra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl if he is goofing aroung with your feelings, than you betta let it go. I understand that you love and care for him very much, but from what i read he is going to break your heart anyway. Don't push him to much or ask many questions, give him some space to think what he is doing to you and to your relationship. Take time off from him, hang with you friends and after a while, go back to him and have a full grown up conversation and tell him where you would like this relationship to go. If he has any comments back give him a chance to explain to him. Be honest and clear with him. That is all you can do. After that it is up to him.
GOOD LUCK.
2006-07-14 10:33:25 · answer #3 · answered by CJV228 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your guy is having confidence issues, he doesn't feel like he's good enough for you and is letting his self pit stand in the way of his love for you. This is something he needs to work out himself but you should let him know how you feel about him no matter what he or others may think.
2006-07-14 10:30:07 · answer #4 · answered by beauman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be sure if this is the right person for u..if yes,then make him feel confident of himself..you encourage him by telling him his positive points and saying that you wud prefer him to anyone else..but make sure that you ll never regret taking this decision of having him as your bf,because that ll make your life worse..good luck.
2006-07-14 10:32:59 · answer #5 · answered by fresh n honest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is right and you should forget him. If he is doing this to you, especially for 2nd time, then he has no respect for your feelings. And someone who does that doesn't deserve to have you. Move on and find someone better.
2006-07-14 10:31:17 · answer #6 · answered by fasb123r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly i wouldnt back track you know!! that saying "if you love someone let them go if the come back its love" doesnt mean for everyone that its true! i would leave him a messege stating you need to know his intensions and if he cant respond to you by that days end i would just leave him alone!! you shouldnt be stressed out of a man thats not good expecally at your age!! theres other guys out there just look!
2006-07-14 10:32:41 · answer #7 · answered by speakt124 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your going places in life...and he's not.
You need someone on your level, and he's not there, and his not contacting you is actually a good sign that he is man enough to realize that.
2006-07-14 10:30:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with the other guys and let him see what he is missing! don't give him all your attention, thats all he wants. Let him chase you and convice you to be with him instead of the other way around.
2006-07-14 10:30:33 · answer #9 · answered by cashmaker81 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Move on with your life...don't expect evreyone to be as kind hearted as you...people are becoming jerks (no offense) but to the nice people like you I'd say DON'T ATTACH YOURSELF TO SOMEONE YOU HAVE THE SLIGHTEST DOUBT THEY DON'T DESERVE IT...coz it'll probably end you up heartbroken
2006-07-14 10:39:18 · answer #10 · answered by Diablous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your friend is confused...he thinks he cant provide you what you need..just give him time and if you can get him to talk to you maybe explain that you want to be with him..maybe he is gettin mixed signals from you...good luck
2006-07-14 10:35:12 · answer #11 · answered by ozzkat2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋