They say he has to break up with me if he wants to live with them. They hate me for no reason and we love each other very much.
2006-07-14 03:10:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get out, until he's willing to cut the umbilical cord you'll never win. plus he's using his parents to keep from growing up and committing to an adult relationship. if he really wanted to be with you nothing would stop him. and 19 is too young to get serious anyway at 25 you won't be the same person you were. so focus on your education friends and your own goals when you're ready "it" will happen
2006-07-14 03:55:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he really loves you and his parents really do hate you for no reason and your love is real then he should stand up to them and show them that he's old enough to date whoever he wants. And the whole living with them is BS, they're probably saying taht to scare the living hell out of him(and it will probably work) but judging by how they hate you they probably love him so much that they wouldnt do such a thing since they depend on him alot and vice versa.
2006-07-14 03:21:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents don't hate their sons' girlfriends for no reason. If he's living with them and they hate you, then you've got a big problem. I'd start working on the parents. Win them over. Be the girlfriend they've always dreamed about for their son.
2006-07-14 03:23:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs yo decide what is most important to him' if you mean enought to him then he should put his foot down and tell his parents to stop controlling his life. And he needs to grow up and stop waiting for Mommy and Daddy to tell him what to do. He should be old enough to make his own decisions
2006-07-14 03:15:20 · answer #4 · answered by beauman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him stand up and be a man. If he thinks it's important enough he will move out, or just not listen to them. It depends on how far his parents are willing to take it. If he does stay with you, and they do kick him out then you get what you want. Can he afford to move out?
2006-07-14 03:15:30 · answer #5 · answered by patrarno 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is where he has to figure out who he wants to be with and either you wait for him to move out and sneak around to see him or break up with in and honestly no matter how much you can be in love with someone once there mother don't like you that relationship will not work and that's facts
2006-07-14 03:15:51 · answer #6 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is 19, then he can have a life away from them, meaning his own place.. but you guys have to find out why they hate you that much?? there has to be a reason
2006-07-14 03:14:40 · answer #7 · answered by messy_missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the parents feel that he's too young to be dating and should be concentrating on his studies? have you talked to your bf regarding his parents not liking you? shd there be a reason that they dislike you? check yourself before pointing the finger at them.
if your bf doesn't stand up as man, no one else can help him.
2006-07-14 03:16:14 · answer #8 · answered by denizen251 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he`s not financially independant u`ll have to wait till he is and can take his own decisions without his parents interfearence
2006-07-14 03:16:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till he is out of mommy's house.
2006-07-14 03:12:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋