i like that guy who's 5 years younger than me and he likes me too !!! and we start falling for each other more every day...but i don't like that fact that he is younger than me !! is there's anything wrong in that ? what shall i do ?? shall i get involved or shall i step back ??? and if we get together will it realy work out or it'll fail sooner or later ?? advice pleaseeeee
2006-07-14 03:08:14 · 15 answers · asked by Nicholet 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont think its goin to work out
2006-07-14 03:15:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is it that you don't like that he's younger than you or is he more immature than you are? There is nothing wrong with liking someone who is 5 years younger than you are, although your maturity level has a LOT to do with it. If you are both mentally the same age, then chronologically it shouldn't matter.
But I think that you are young and haven't had a lot of dating experience yet. You can ask people for advice all day long, but the truth of it is that when it's just the two of you, it doesn't matter what anyone else says. All different kinds of people work out for all different kinds of reasons. Sometimes you just have to risk it and see where it goes, but the ride is always interesting.
Good luck. I know you'll do what's right for you.
2006-07-14 03:16:44 · answer #2 · answered by headshrinker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with it (as long as both of you are leagal and at a strong maturity level) If you guys are falling for each other then let it happen, or later down the road you might wonder,"Why did I end that, I could have been so happy with him"
But on the other hand, why does it bother sooooo much that he is younger? If that's the only thing stopping you, then get over it.
when you're older you will give anything for a younger guy to just look at you.
2006-07-14 03:20:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish you would have mentioned ages it would make it easier, however if you are both over 18 the age differance will only be a problem if it is a problem for you. If the two of you have some common interests by all means enjoy each others company. Men have been going out with younger women for centuries and has that caused problems? So if you enjoy it please don't handicap yourself just because of age. You never know he may be a keeper. Good luck and best wishes!!!!!
2006-07-14 03:14:43 · answer #4 · answered by uniroyalfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
(Once above the age of consent,) Age is just a number; what really matters is maturity and compatibility. There are guys 10 years older than you who are less mature than you; I think I can safely say that without even knowing your age!
So, just proceed slowly & get to know him better before becoming too entangled. If you really are right for each other, it will survive moving slowly; and if it isn't a good thing, there will be less fallout in the end.
Good luck!
2006-07-14 03:16:16 · answer #5 · answered by M Huegerich 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really love him then the age difference wont matter. there is nothing wrong with not wanting to like someone that is younger then u but get over it. get involved. u might get something good out of it. it may or may not fail later but remember this may sound cheesey but it is absolutley true:it is better to have loved and lost to have never loved at all.
2006-07-14 03:16:44 · answer #6 · answered by spring goth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask yourself if age is really important to you. To me it sounds like you are bothered by it if you are bringing it up. You can tell yourself it's not a big deal but you will probably always think about it. Especially if he is doing things that are immature. He will not suddenly grow up 5 years. So if you think it is something you can handle go for it. But if you have doubt then it probably won't work out anyway.
2006-07-14 03:23:12 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this all depends on how old you are and how old he is. If you are in your 20's and he is over 18, then I say go for it, you never know, it just might work out! My aunt is 6 years older than my uncle and they've been married for 22 years!
2006-07-14 03:12:44 · answer #8 · answered by Nicole 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you both work at the relationship it will work..dont think of the age difference..as long as you both are of legal age,,my boyfriend is 13 years younger than me..and we get along great..we dont feel the age diffrence is an issue
2006-07-14 03:17:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't know if it will work out or not but they say women grow up before men and that's why in most relationships the guy is older but if you feel so much for him and he is mature enough, then don't let age stand in the way.
2006-07-14 03:12:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how old you both are. If he's "jail bait", run away...do not walk away...from the situation. If you're both adults, see if you have anything in common before you get in the sack.
2006-07-14 03:12:31 · answer #11 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋