If you truly believe that sex is natural, should be enjoyed freely, and we are just animals after all then shouldn't your children get to play with it too? And should it be illegal or immoral for a man to have sex with his daughter? I know this sounds gross but dogs will mate with their daughters. By the way condoms are thinner than surgical gloves and the gloves we use where I work break more than once a night so condoms can't guarantee "safe sex."
2006-07-14 03:02:48 · 30 answers · asked by Debra M. Wishing Peace To All 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I didn't say I agree with this. I don't I just am asking in reply to some non -Christians answers on someone else's question. I believe in Chastity and marriage.
Peace
2006-07-14 03:08:48 · update #1
So then we can all agree that man is not "Just another animal" and that Chastity has some merit?
2006-07-14 03:10:17 · update #2
no
2006-07-14 03:05:07 · answer #1 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Actually NOTHING can guarantee safe sex except abstinence. On the other hand, you'd be surprised how hard it is to rip a condom. Try blowing one up or pouring a gallon of water in one, and you'll see. But still, there's always a chance it can break. If abstinence isn't an option, a couple should try using two or more birth control methods such as a condom, the pill, and spermicide during intercourse. That will drastically lower your chances of being infected or getting pregnant.
About sexual beliefs, it actually varies for everyone. Many people abstain until marriage and are satisfied with their choice but, surprisingly, many are happy they didn't abstain before marriage. Sex is actually the foundation of marriage. It can determine the paramount trust shared between a couple. So, often, it helps to have sex with your future wife/husband to see how the marriage will function. Also, religion controls most of our sexual principles. For instance, christianity strongly encourages abstinence until marriage, unlike Buddhism. Ever heard of the kama sutra? It's a treatise on love and sexual technique.
I believe that any sexual preferences should not be illegal as long as it's consensual between partners. I have my own believes about fathers sleeping with their daughters. Honestly, I feel that it is immoral but, instinctivetly, every human's desire is different from one another. Again, I say, as long as it's consensual, it's acceptable.
I know you've read a lot and getting impatient but there's one more thing. I strongly believe that sex should be, I quote, natural and enjoyed freely... as long as both partners are mature and wise enough. They should be as careful as can be. If my son or daughter began having sex, he or she should be at an appropriate age and maturity.
Hope you're satisfied.
2006-07-15 16:34:01 · answer #2 · answered by Kel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Biblically, Sex is to be enjoyed by a married male and female. Anything outside of marriage is considered fornication which is a sin. Incest according to the bible is a sin. We are held more accountable for our actions than animals. We have a mind that reasons and deducts. We are not dogs. If you want to go by the animal kingdom, then any guy could walk right up to you or a loved one and start banging away. That's what happens in nature. The only thing that you said that I agree with is that condoms are not 100% effective.
2006-07-14 03:08:53 · answer #3 · answered by Michael F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe that sex is immoral, but I do believe that a person should be able to understand what is going on, and be of an age of concent!
An individual needs to be old enough to understand the potential consequences of becoming pregnant. Not just pregnancy, but be able to understand the potential of disease and death!
An individual needs to be able to understand the life changing events, relationship changing qualities, etc, of becoming sexually active. Some people are ready earlier than others, but it is unhealthy (emotionally/mentally) for people younger than 14 or 15 to engadge in this type of activity, the complications that can evolve from a sexually active lifestyle change a persons life forever.
You're right, there is no real "safe sex", so people can only try to do their best to protect themselves, and sometimes the best way is to abstain. The more you engage, the higher the risk.
Sex is not for amatures. It is not for blood family. It is not for a 40 year old man with a 14 year old girl, that's just abuse. A 14 year old girl is barely old enough to concent with a 14 year old boy, but a 40 year old man is just taking advantage. It is not for a 40 year old woman and a 14 year old boy...for the same reason. If a 20 year old woman wants to be with a 50 or 60 year old man, that's her business, she is old enough and has experienced enough, most likely, to know what she's getting herself into.
2006-07-14 03:16:02 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all u can't compare humans to dogs that like comparing the ability of a dog to that of a ant we are the most intelligent of mammals and a woman is the only mammal that has sex 4 pleaser . I feel that if u believe in god u should wait till u r married , but if u can't at least b safe. and for goodness sake don't mess whit your parents , that is gross. I feel that it is unrealistic to not have sex be for marriage that is like buying a car whit out a test drive , u got to see how it handles b 4 u buy it ! If u can abstain than do it if not get the physical in line as well as the mental so u can b on the same page body and soul.
2006-07-14 03:13:21 · answer #5 · answered by sirdrsgttasty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex IS natural and can be enjoyed.
But, in most people, it invovles emotions.
Often emotions so powerful that people are known to end their own lives or murder others over them.
Then there's the pregnancy issue.
Then there's disease.
Sex is too important to be treated lightly and dismissing humans as purely "animals" is a cop out. Even if you are only an animal, you're an animal with feelings and a mind. That, alone, complicates the issue.
2006-07-14 03:21:59 · answer #6 · answered by Alexander Shannon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This a one of the best questions I've read so far! My daughter is about to be 6 next month and I already know what I have decide. I had my daughter when I was 16. My personal opinion, it's best if you know what your son and/or daughter is doing. You should make it a bad thing or tell them that if they do it there are going to be serious punishments. Educate them! Tell them that you would like for them to wait until their married but if there going to do it, at least let you know so that you can take the necessary steps to help protect them from unwanted pregnancy and STD's. Most are afraid to tell the parents and that's how STD's and pregnancies happen. If I were able to talk to my mother about it and she helped me I wouldn't of had a child so early in life. Teaching them is the most important thing you could do, and not just about STD's but what GOD thinks about it. It's not trying to be their friend, its being a parent teaching and watching out for their well-being.
2006-07-14 03:18:29 · answer #7 · answered by almond_joy1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
No.
Yes.
Not all animals mate with their immediate relatives. None of the Great Apes do so. Some birds do not.
There's a reason for marriage - children. Children need to be raised by two parents, not just one. Statistics on single-parent households bear out the notion that children so raised are more likely to be ill-education, go to jail and end up with low paying jobs.
2006-07-14 03:08:04 · answer #8 · answered by wiregrassfarmer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My son is 16 and will be 17 in a few months. If my son wanted to have sex I would buy him condoms. I have educated him to the best of my abiblity and have raised a good young man. I can not be with him every minute of every day. I can not control his life. God gave him free will. If he wants to have sex he can I just hope he keeps safe. I also have a daughter but she is very young and I don't have to worry about this with her just yet. I also talk straight with her about such things. When she is older and comes to me about being ready to have sex I will probably try to talk her out of it. If she still insist then I will take her to the doctor and get her the pill and I will also buy her condoms. We can talk all we want to our children but they will make their own choices. Best thing to do is prepare them.
Love & Light
Sharon
One Planet = One People
2006-07-14 03:29:41 · answer #9 · answered by Soul 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, and how twisted are you to want sex from your father? Sex is pleasurable, but it is intended to be between a man and his wife, definitely not his children. And sex is not a game to be "played" with by anyone. It is an intimate experience for mature married adults! Animals do a lot of really gross things that we as superior beings do not do, such as lick ourselves, eat our own poop, and poop of other people, roll in poop, eat bugs, eat wood, etc., etc. We do things that animals don't or can't, such as read and write, communicate in various languages, have a spirit where we can talk to God, clean up after ourselves, build a fire, cook, drive, invent, etc., etc. Really how old are you?
2006-07-14 03:19:35 · answer #10 · answered by Matt B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no reason why your children shouldn't have sex before marriage, but not at any age. Laws have been made to protect the vunerable and the young.Girls in particular can be damaged by sex at too early an age
2006-07-14 03:07:58 · answer #11 · answered by pikewingers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋