Yesterday mornin' I cheated on my bf and now I can't stop thinking of the other guy and my bf.The sad thing is my bf doesn't do half of the things the other guy did to me. I love my bf and when my bf and I started daiting he gave me this rule I can look I can flirt but I can't touch.And last week he went camping for a week and he said he met a few girls up there and then he said don't worry nothing happened. I m not going to tell my bf I cheated on him with anotherguy.
2006-07-14 02:57:59 · 12 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi Steph, first sorry this has become such a mess for you. Now I'm wondering how well you know either guy, bf or the other. Sometimes people get to know each other as they date other times they get to know each other first before commiting to a serious relationship. I would say if you really want things to go further with your current bf, then find out exactly that. If you're just not really planing to take things more seriously then you may need to be honest with yourself about whether or not you want more. If it is going somewhere more seriously with your current bf and that IS what you want, then this other guy, that can't happen again and you need to make it clear to him it was a mistake, a weakness , whatever. Then the next thing is talking to your bf. You may have to explain to him (half the things you do want him to do intimately) what you want. Who knows maybe he wants more kinky wild sex or whatever too. Honestly though you have opened up a door with this other guy and to settle things withoutlosing your bf, or losing his friendship, you may have to consider honestly hooking him up with someone you trust.
2006-07-14 03:18:45 · answer #1 · answered by Eddie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that's unfortunate for both yourself and your BF. I think you should really examine your life and your definition of love. Love would most certainly encompass trust and honestly, which are two things that you just shattered. THAT is the sad thing, not that the guy you cheated with was better in bed. My advice is to come clean, at least then your BF can make an informed decision on the matter, since you have placed yourself, and therefore him at risks for STD's. We are only human and we all make mistakes. If you come clean, maybe you guys can work it out. Just so you know apparently the "experts" recommend not telling, I guess I'm just a decent person when it comes to that. Sorry for being so harsh, its just how I feel. I really do wish you the best in life. Take care and stay safe.
2006-07-14 10:00:49 · answer #2 · answered by johnhategoblins 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold on! You guy was camping away from you and had enough love for you to control himself and not do antyhing that he would later regret or would hurt you and what to you do? You cheat on him and aren't even going to have the decency to be honest and tell him? I'm sorry but that is cruel and insensitive, you need to tell your bf waht you did and either ask him to forgive you and take you back or break up with him for the other guy. But you must be honest!
2006-07-14 10:03:29 · answer #3 · answered by beauman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does the other guy do for u ,that your bf doesn't ? If u found out he really did do something when he went camping ...How would he feel ? U would be hurt. Just think if the shoe was on the other foot what u would do ?
2006-07-14 10:28:18 · answer #4 · answered by scorpio84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you like this new guy a lot! Either way, clearly you seem to feel something is missing with your current boyfriend. It would probably be best for all concerned if you broke it off with your boyfriend and took some time to date around and figure out what you want. I would understand if my girlfriend broke up with me for this, but cheating is just NOT an acceptable option.
2006-07-14 10:04:03 · answer #5 · answered by danl747 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you really like the other guy. Do the bf a favor and break it off with him. Give him a chance to find someone who will keep her word. You, honey, are a tramp.
2006-07-14 10:01:18 · answer #6 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If sex is what you are looking for then get out now. But you need to be honest with him. He will find out eventually. Relationships do not work on lies.
2006-07-14 10:02:17 · answer #7 · answered by Right Wing Extremist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, what are you thinking? You could have contracted an std.
2006-07-14 10:02:00 · answer #8 · answered by roses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honset to your b/f
but most of all to youre self
2006-07-14 10:02:37 · answer #9 · answered by MARK C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You's a hoe.
2006-07-14 10:34:12 · answer #10 · answered by 2Kleen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋