I am 25, a single mum. I'm an asian, so the culture around me cannot accept me being unwed with a child. Who doesn't want to have a happy family life right? The father of my child left me so for sure i'm not going back to him.
2006-07-14 02:55:58 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course sweetie, you just got to find the right man. You're in a difficult situation but it should make you stronger. Don't worry about others think about you, worry about yourself because they don't know what you're going thru. Be patient, stay strong and you'll find a good man.
2006-07-14 03:01:27 · answer #1 · answered by DON 2 · 8⤊ 0⤋
Hi Hun
i am sorry your feeling so low it must be hard
but you must be a strong woman knowing that people don't accept you
see you have your child you are still standing i think it is about time you stand up and say i am a woman but i am independent
go out of your culture if needs be start a life for you and your child i no i am sitting here behind a comp screen and words type easy but i am thinking of you and your child if you stay there how will your child feel as he/she grows up will she find the same prejudice
take life by both hands you no you can go get a real life were people will want to be apart of your life and will not sit in judgment
good luck
respect
shaz
2006-07-14 10:05:12 · answer #2 · answered by sharon B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So for sure you never married the man, right? That's what happens when you bring a child into a relationship without the security of marriage. I wish the American culture would have the same values. You'll fall in love again. In the meantime, think about what you did and humble yourself to your community. Then be prepared to work for the rest of your life supporting this innocent child who should come first before you and your love dreams.
2006-07-14 09:59:46 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you will love and be loved,its sad some cultures are that way but thats the way it is in asia.Maybe you should make a serious change in your life and relocate,maybe England or America would be good choice for you.Be strong for you and your child and try to have your family support if possible,good luck.
2006-07-14 10:07:37 · answer #4 · answered by Don Juan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you will love again. It will happen when you least expect it. Don't worry about people accepting you. What happened, happened. You can't take anything back. Go on being the best Mom and person you can be. People will see this and eventually accept things for what they are. God Bless and Good Luck
2006-07-14 10:04:20 · answer #5 · answered by sam04m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh yes..you will...just don't go looking in the wrong places, love will find you when you least exspect it.. I am a divorced mom of a daughter. I have been with a man for over a yr. now and he is the love of my life, we have soooo much in common and have talked about getting married..some day.. i am not in a rush for the marriage thing right now. we are happy.. and some day you will find the man you cannot live without!! good luck
2006-07-14 10:01:43 · answer #6 · answered by motorcyclelovinmama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I did I thought I would could never love again but now I can love again. And I am in love with someone close to my heart.I knew him since grade school and we were friends before I moved and then when highschool started we became friends again. And it was like nothing changed.
2006-07-14 10:03:11 · answer #7 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I definitely think you will! Everyone deserves to be in love! I'm sorry you and your ex didn't work out. That's extra hard when a child is involved. Just be patient and keep your eyes open. It will happen for you!
2006-07-14 10:01:17 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that u need to try 2 move on and let go! Who cares what others think? you will find love again! It will come when u least expect it! And i kinda understand what u mean by the culture! It isnt pretty but u kno wut u go out there and tell them screw u guys and its none of ur busnisses that i brought such beautiful child in this world! It will come belibve me!
2006-07-14 10:02:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will love again. However, you need to be patient. You cannot hurry love. In the mean time, enjoy your single life and your child.
2006-07-14 09:58:31 · answer #10 · answered by Missy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋