Hey there, i need to know something, the other night my gf was over and we started fooling around, i went to grab her *** (as in the flesh) and she pulled my hand off it, but then ten minutes later she was pushing her exposed breasts in my face! I was blown away! wtf is going on here? btw, i am her first bf ever, and she has never fooled around b4.
2006-07-14 02:53:49 · 42 answers · asked by Max C 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like maybe she wasn't ready to be grabbed/ fool around. However, after she told you "no," she probably started feeling insecure about telling you "no"- like she thought you might have thought she was trying to push you away emotionally as well as sexually/ physically. So, she decided to push her breasts in your face because she thought it would please you, and if you are pleased, you won't leave her. Believe me girls really do think like that sometimes. Some will even go so far as having sex with a guy when they know they aren't ready for sex, just to keep the guy happy, but it always leads to problems later on. If you want my advice, I say, tell her that you would like to talk about this subject sometime when she feels comfortable; that way she has a chance to think about what she wants to say if she needs the time to do that. Then, honestly, reassure her that you are interested in her, tell her the good qualities about her that attract her to you, and ask her if she honestly feels ready for your relationship to become more physical- don't freak out or get angry if she says no. I would also suggest that if you are really serious about this girl and want the healthiest relationship possible for the longest period of time, you should wait to have sex until you are married. That way you miss out on fun things in your relationship like worrying if you've gotten her pregnant and/or getting tested for STD's. I realize that probably most people don't wait until they are married anymore- actually, I didn't and now I'm a single mom with two young kids, and I know that I would not want them to end up with some of the hardships that I've had in raising them by myself- I guess it's just the mom in me. Good luck!
2006-07-14 14:11:59 · answer #1 · answered by amy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
"My brothers, you wouldn't be able to answer?"
What do you think this is rocket science? Sex has been around for a while now.
Here's a little known fact - If you ask you girlfriend a question in the right way with the right attitude...
...she will answer, it's called a conversation.
Once you've discussed this issue and you understand each other - grab her *** again just to show her you're a bloke and wasn't listening!!!
2006-07-14 03:31:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
good day expensive, imagine of eliminating all those ineffective issues which make galz stand behind adult males contained in the society quite than including as a lot as better ineffective issues as id for married guy. An wise individual is the requirement to attraction to close no matter if yet another individual is married or no longer. And now u all dont say that u all can make-out diff between married and unmarried individual.
2016-12-01 06:38:06 · answer #3 · answered by wernecke 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey man...back off of the virgin, will you? If you know she's never fooled around, just give her alot of space. She's not ready and doesn't know what to do and it sounds like you don't either. Her first experience should be gentle and sensitive. Grabass is neither. Can't you just kiss her sweetly and say, "babe, when we're ready for this, we'll do it right". Learn something about women before trying to deflower one.
2006-07-14 02:57:10 · answer #4 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being grabbed and caressed are two different things..... When my guy starts grabbing me I get irritated, but when we start getting intimate, I love to be touched, caressed and rubbed ALL OVER...and then it is welcomed.... women love to be romanced and lead into it.... then to me the nastier the better.... so go slow and kisses on the neck and use your imagination and have fun with it.... Start as a gentleman then go from there.......If you start off right you can get anything you want....
2006-07-14 03:37:03 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, we change our minds a lot. It's really kinda complicated, but sometimes the first time u fool around is unexpected. So then we think about it, then we're ok, then we do somethin crazy like that.
2006-07-14 02:59:04 · answer #6 · answered by Fallen Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok here is what was going on...... She was probably into it at first and then she freaked out a little bit. You never know maybe she was on her period where she was scared you might discover that. Also because she hasn't had sex before she might be a little shy. She might be thinking ok he is wanting something anal and she might not want to go there.
2006-07-14 03:05:02 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't like to be grabbed. Girls want to have a choice. Don't just grab someone. Be niice and kind. If she's never had a boyfriend before you're going to have to ask her if she's ready, and go slow.
2006-07-14 02:56:07 · answer #8 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just maybe grabbing her *** does not excite her but when you put your face where she likes it .......well not you got something. Just enjoy whatever she wants. Just because you never had a bf b4 doesn't me you don't have likes and dislikes. We all do.
2006-07-14 03:00:53 · answer #9 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the woman felt insecure in that zone! Most girls, like if they have insecurities they dont want u 2 touch them. Like if ur overweight u dont want to maybe show ur stomach to anyone cuz u feel insecure! Maybe shes just insecure about her *** and maybe she likes her boobs or she didnt like what you were doin so she tiook over and wanted 2 be in charge! u never kno....
2006-07-14 02:58:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋