I just got asked out by a 14 year old little girl on the street on my lunch break AGAIN! This is the latest insult in a year that has seen four random gay men in Central London asking me out, as well as a bunch of 16 year olds and middle-aged women. Why can't anybody my own age and preferred sex (female) ask me out? Is it my fault? And also, if this happens to you, does it make you feel more lonely and single?
2006-07-14 02:51:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and she was wearing a school uniform and had braces...
2006-07-14 02:53:56 · update #1
The longer you wait the more happy you will be when you find that special person, i know i will be. Meanwhile take all the people asking you out as a compliment and if it is embarrasing, if you see a person making a beeline towards you make yourself busy with your mates.It doesent make me feel lonely because ive got my mates but occasionally it does make me feel single. It isn't your fault, people obviously haven't got good taste. Just keep your chin up, smilr and surround youself with mates. (chocolate sometimes helps aswell)
2006-07-18 01:50:09 · answer #1 · answered by buffy Fan 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hahaha, almost exactly the same thing happened to me a while ago!
I went to have diner over at a co-worker's place.
Her husband and her 14 year old son were there too.
The son obviously took a shining to me for some sick reason I don't even want to think about it.
At one point, he asked me how old I was.
I thought that the answer (I am 29) might scare him away, but nooooo.... his response was "so then you are only 15 years older than I am!"
Thanks so much, is that supposed to make me feel better?
It felt weird, especially since only a couple of days before this
I went on a date with a man in his fifities who also expressed a more than normal interest in me.
So I'm okay with teenagers and over fifities, I just shouldn't try to get anyone my own age :-)
2006-07-15 17:06:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hook up with the middle aged women and learn a thing or two. Middle aged women start reaching their sexual peak in their mid 30's so they are ready to turn the juices on and for a young pup it is the best, most confidence building experience you can get. I've been there, the good bye part was the hardest, but my other girlfriends are thankful I did it.
2006-07-14 10:02:38 · answer #3 · answered by RF Ace Face 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best answer to give you would be this: if women from all different age groups hit on you and gay men hit on you, take it as a compliment. be nice about it. say something like "i'm flattered but i'm just not that into you" look at it as there is something about you that appeals to many different types of people. that is a compliment above all...it isn't your fault, but if you dont want younger girls hitting on you or gay men and way older women, maybe the way you present yourself needs a little work. this happens to me with women and older men all the time...and when they hit on me i just politely say "thank you but no". i used to hate it but now i realize, if im appealing to that big of the demographic, i might as well be proud of it. hope this helped!
2006-07-18 08:15:36 · answer #4 · answered by brittany110586 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heyyyyy, that was me in the uniform ... Didn't ya fancy me?!
Lol! I know the feeling, the guys I like don't even know I exist and the repulsive ones ask me out and it's so frustrating!
Hang in there, you progress be asked out by a 6th former next ...
2006-07-14 09:59:00 · answer #5 · answered by LONDONER © 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh poor lad!no its not your fault at all,,u are the last person to blame!! yeah! i agree with you that it does make someone do a bit of some introspection,,,
you may need to change how you dress abit,, maybe it makes you look too young or change you hairstyle,, it could be too flashy!!
or maybe the people you hang around with, change your crowd,,,try that!!!
best of luck
2006-07-14 10:29:36 · answer #6 · answered by wendy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, at least your getting asked out....
Most people have to walk around with paper bags over their heads with eye holes cut out....so think yourself lucky!
(present company excluded of course!!)
2006-07-14 09:55:25 · answer #7 · answered by neen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry you must have looked younger than you are treat it as a compliment and you'll be OK
2006-07-14 09:55:09 · answer #8 · answered by Hitman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the right ones just round the corner, keep ur chin up
2006-07-14 09:54:18 · answer #9 · answered by ho2asme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be flattered! obviously your appeal must be worldwide. wish i got that sort of attention x
2006-07-14 09:54:48 · answer #10 · answered by jo* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋