How do you think Christians should dress?

Question

I am an non-denominational Christian, and I dress very conservatively. I wear only dresses and shirts, nothing above my ankles, high neck line shirts, no make-up, and no jewelry. This is because of I Peter 3:3-5- "3:3-Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel; 3:4-But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price. 3:5-For after this manner in the old time the holy women also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection unto their own husbands:"
and because of I Timothy 2:9-"In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array;" I know that pentacostals do this, and I respect them for it. I'm not pentacostal, but I have pentacostal friends. What do you think?

I do think that women should dress conservatively cause it keeps men from being tempted, especially if he is a Chritistian. And I do believe that Hollywood as trashed the image of women, dressing like that. Yes, I believe that everyone should dress conservatively. I'm tired of turning my head everytime I see a someone half dressed.

I do believe in Deut. 22:5

Answer 1

I agree with you entirely. I dress feminine and modest as well. I cover my head for prayer as well and I am a Catholic. Too many Christian women I know dress like street walkers or wear their makeup like Tammy Faye Baker. It's confusing. I read a wonderful book about dressing modestly called "Dressing With Dignity" I learned much about the fashions and my Church on them.
Peace Be With You,
Debra

Answer 2

If you take the Bible literally, women shouldn't speak in church. However, if you take time to understand the history of the verses stating women shouldn't speak in church, you realise that it was because it was taboo for women to speak in public, and so if a woman spoke in church, it would make the church look like they didn't follow along with society's laws.

I think Christians should dress how they feel they should. Their personal beliefs should dictate their dress code, not what the pastor says. If someone believes they should dress conservatively, then no one else should change their mind. If someone else believes differently, then no one should change their mind either. It's dependent on an individuals personal relationship with God and their creed that establishes their dress code.

I don't think there's a clear right or wrong dress code for the whole Christian body.

Answer 3

I get my Biblical standards of dress from different places in the Bible. Mostly 1 Timothy 2:9, where is says "modest apparel." This raises a lot of questions as to what "modest apparel" is. If you dress in a way that would make a man want you, or in a way that would make anyone think badly of you, you're not modest (in skirts or pants). I have no problem with wearing skirts to the knee--I don't see how showing your calf is going to make someone lust after you as soon as they see it.

The main message of the passage in 1st Peter and in 1st Timothy is that it's your attitude and your spirit which are important and this is where you emphasis should be, not on physical appearances. I went to a private Christian college with a strict dress standard and despite the rules we still had girls who managed to look like (pardon the expression) sluts. It was their attitude, the way they walked, and the way they carried themself. This is what God wants us to stay away from.

I understand and respect your dress code but would like to make one suggestion. I don't know exactly how you dress, but please dress fashionably. By fashionably I mean keep yourself presentable at all times. Every now and then when I'm at the store I'll see some well-meaning Christian ladies who are wearing very baggy skirts with very baggy shirts, tennis shoes, and long unkempt hair. I'm sure they mean well, but they're driving people away from Christianity. I used to dress like that (when I was about 15) and I realized people thought I was a freak and they didn't want anything to do with my church or my God. So I cut my waist-length hair to where it was still long but fashionable (put layers in it), traded in huge glasses for smaller, more sophisticated frames, and began wearing A-line skirts with collared or floral shirts. My strandards didn't change, just the way I presented myself. And when it did, people began accepting me more and even listened when I talked about God.

Answer 4

I agree with you totally you go by what the bible says and how much clearer could it get then the scriptures you put out. and of course don't forget Deut. 22:5 I am an apostolic and we believe the same although women shouldn't cut their hair either 1 cor. 11:15
1 Cor.11:16
and 1 Cor.11:10
1 Cor. 11:15 clearly states that would should have long hair it is given to her for her glory and the other scriptures cover that women should not cut their hair

Answer 5

I think its wonderfuul the way you dress. I do wear makeup cause man if I dont I look awful. We have a saying around if, If an old barn needs painting then paint it, if it dont leave it alone. I always wear dresses that go to the floor about it. I would never show my legs if at all possible, and I am a Baptist. Great scriptures you gave as well, just keep doing what you doing and continue to serve Jesus. Amen!!

Answer 6

I think in general you should dress how you feel comfortable. Personally, though I don't know where it says this in the bible, I know it says somewhere, something like Come as you are. Meaning there really is no proper dress code for church.

Most of the churches I have gone to have had this attitude. Nobody really dresses up for church. That could be because i live by the beach, and many of the ppl in my church surf, and often surf before church.

For me, I don't wear skirts very often, but I do try to look nice. I do wear makeup,. but i'm not a huge fan of jewlery in general, so don't wear alot to church. I personally believe that God cares more that we go to church and fellowship with other christians more then he cares what we look like. And I mean if your getting all gussied up for church, your really doing it for God. and many ppl believe that you should put your best foot forward for God. Like its a respect thing.

I really think it all goes down to personal preference.

Answer 7

If You Are A Christian Then You Would Listen To Jesus And He Says You Shouldent Worry About Those Things

Answer 8

im a born-again christian, and what the bible is trying to say is that you should not dress in a way that you are trying to attract men (if you know what i mean, boobs hangin out, tight pants, short short skirts.) but i think you dont need to wear skirts that long, and wearing jewelry is not wrong at all. But things like belly rings, maybe suggestive to men. At the same time you shouldnt waste all your money on excessively expensive jewelry. Thats my opinion.

Answer 9

I think women should dress modestly whether they are Christian or not. Hollywood sells us a rotten bill of goods about being sexy and provocative. One would hope that the men who love us are interested in our souls as well as our bodies. Otherwise, it's all fluff.

Answer 10

O_o I wasn't aware thet Christians had Leviticus-esque rules for our lives..

I dress modestly enough usually, simply because I have modesty. I have enough respect for myself. But there are times when other forms of dress may be called for. (I wouldn't wear a business suit on a date, now would I?)

I think it's up to everyone to decide how to dress for themselves.