how can i make my relationship work?

Question

i can't sit home without him getting mad and i can't go out without him getting mad. he says it's just jealousy but he straight up FLIPS out on me. it seems like everything i do makes him mad. how can i make this work without breaking up with him?

Answer 1

Don't make it work. Period.

Jealousy doesn't go away with time...it intensifies. Unless you have a thing for being someone's property, I'd suggest a quick, clean break.

Answer 2

try to have a little strong personality ,,, and make him get used to the fact that u r not a toy !! u'll do whatever u want to do but becouse u love him u'll try not to upset him ,, tell him that u'll obay him just becouse u love him ,,that 'll make him slow down orders little bit cuz he'll get affried that u may got enough of orders and leave him ..
and when he get mad of something u did don't just comfort him or promise him u won't do it again in order to make him get calm !! NO NO ,, if u did something wrong then its oky take the blame but if u didn't done anything wrong than stand up for urself and tell him that its not oky with u that he's always mad out of nothing and he should change..
u didn't have to do all that in a rough or aggrissive way ,,, noooooo do it so calmly while u r smiling and belive me it'll take a month or so and he'll change totaly

Answer 3

First make sure your age is enough to enter such a relationship legally and whether you are ready for marriage.
Then make sure you get this book from Jehovah's Witnesses.
The name of the book is The Secret Of Family Happiness. Then read it through if possible with him.But reading it alone is not enough,make sure your practice what you read.
I wish You A Happy Family Life.

Answer 4

If everything makes him mad thats a hard one. Have you ever sat down and talked about his anger and tell him how its ruining the relationship? I would have a looong talk and tell him if he doesnt change his ways then you dont think its gonna work. If he loves you he will try to be a better person. Good luck.

Answer 5

For one thing, you shouldn't want to just "make it work". Your relationship is important and your boyfriend should be there for you and you two should complete eachother. You don't sound like you are very happy in this relationship and have every right not to be, so why would you want to make something work that doesn't make you happy? You should expalin to him how you feel and if he doesn't lighten up and get over his anger and jealousy, you need to break it up.

Answer 6

You can't. Leave now before he starts flipping out and beating you....if everything you do makes him mad, its only a matter of time before the hitting starts!
RUN AWAY!

Answer 7

You can't dear. This is what I call TPS, otherwise known as tiny penis syndrome. He is afraid you will discover a normal man and lose him. DO IT! lol! Probably will turn into an abusive jerk if you don't. Trust me I have seen men with TPS, they all suffer the same syndromes. Lose the hole and go find a roll babe!

Answer 8

You can't. He's immature and is trying to isolate you from others. This alone isn't healthy, but eventually, he will turn abusive and I'm not talking verbally. Get out now while the gettin' is good! He's not worth the trouble.

Answer 9

It sounds to me like he has a serious control issue and an anger problem. I would get out of this as fast as possilbe. It only gets worse in time, you can't change it, only he can. Run for your life, it may depend on it

Answer 10

He is a very unsecured person. Build trust. Include him in outings if possible. Get him to read books on relationships and assure him time and time again that you love him and no one else