We used to enjoy sex 4 or 5 times a day quite often more, but since Eastenders has taken a turn for the better our love life has suffered and rarely enjoy more than twice a day. Should I be concerned about our love life going down the drain, merely to be replaced by a soap? Can soap replace sex?
2006-07-14 02:17:34 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get rid of the TV and use some other form of contraceptive!!
2006-07-14 02:20:27 · answer #1 · answered by happyflamepepper 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i wouldnt worry about it My husband and i use to do the same thing when were were first together we would have sex 4-8x a day and now were lucky to have sex 3x a week it dont mean that your love life is going down the drain having sex 2x a day is still really good if you are enjoying it, this just means that there are other things going on in life. you using soap is not going to replace sex it may help you out by temrerally reliving sexual frustration but it will never be better than sex try to do things together other than sex sometimes if you are doing nothing but having sex a woman can feel used and feel like that is all that she is good for try showing her that you love/like her by doing other things together things that you guys have in commen other than having great sex, and after having a great day together the sex will be even better and you wont need to have sex as much you will learn to just enjoy eachothers company rather than just enjoying sex
2006-07-14 02:28:23 · answer #2 · answered by Meagan P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Tim!
I would say....that u dont need to worry at all. After all, both soap and sex are stress-busters, way to keep one occupied and feel relaxed. Instead, i think 2 of u may enjoy watching it together.
The frequency also goes down with passage of time in every relationship. Thats somewhat natural for which worrying is 'NO SOLUTION' at all.
Infact, you should be glad that your relationship is getting mature and growing up in the sense that initial attraction, glamour and the stage of infatuation is fading off and giving way to some Serious and more bonded relationship, where its not all about having SEX.
Take care and Enjoy life, love and Soaps :) TOGETHER to the fullest.
Krish, hot male.
2006-07-14 02:31:55 · answer #3 · answered by hot male 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh bless you, It al depends on how long you have been together. Sometimes you just calm down with sex after a while of doing the same positions and that. Dont worry, it is perfectly normal. Just give her some space and you will see that she wont be able to resist you,
ps. Eastenders is rubbish, sorry mate.
2006-07-14 02:26:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wat da hell?.........eastenders..u must b gutted!
but to b honest 4/5 times a day is way too much!
i undastand dat she may have enjoyed it at 1st but have u asked her how she feels about your sex life? she may be too tired out and as a result...shes lost her libido (sexual urges). talk 2 her....if u2 r really in love shell talk wiv u and tell u how she really feels...after all eastenders is only on 4 30 mins a day!
and if u carry on the way youre going ur going to lose it a lil after a while too...its too much pressure on the both of u, 2 perform gr8 all the time 4 or 5 times a day!
good luck x
2006-07-14 02:41:03 · answer #5 · answered by tatty259butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
course soaps can, if thre is something good on th telly then you wont need to have sex as often four or five times a day sounds a bit much, sex is probably getting to predictable for her, maybe thats why
2006-07-14 02:35:09 · answer #6 · answered by jojo78 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He means 'Eastenders' [the soap opera]
I think you should tell her how you feel. How the hell can a soap influence your love life?! makes no sense.
2006-07-14 02:20:09 · answer #7 · answered by pn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you better push the issue. twice a day is good. If you ever get married and have kids and get a real job you will be wishing for that 2 times a day.
2006-07-14 02:20:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no but i bet its not new anymore sex between a man and woman is great for the first few years and then it dies down thats the way it goes i cant imagine she doesnt love you other things in life come into play and sex is not number 1 priorty anymore
2006-07-14 02:21:08 · answer #9 · answered by barbie c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
twice a day? i watch eastenders, if i watch it i'm more likely 2 want sex after, if i miss it it puts me in a mood so i'm less likely 2 want it, let her watch and see what happen after. trust me u've got nothing 2 worry about.
2006-07-14 02:32:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, soap can be used during sex!
2006-07-14 02:21:07 · answer #11 · answered by PIMPSTA! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋