2006-07-14 01:28:42 · 12 answers · asked by Aaron.M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because not everyone is out to hurt you. Choose carefully and you won't be disappointed. I am on the other side of this question right now. I'm trying to prove to someone who has been hurt badly in the past that he can trust me.
2006-07-14 01:31:57 · answer #1 · answered by clarity 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you look around, you will see that there is nothing more wrong with you than anyone else and there are others all around you who are in decent relationships. The key is to be open to it, don't close yourself completely off from the possibility of having love in your life but do give yourself time to think about what YOU want in a relationship and focus on being who YOU want to be, with or without a relationship, then... when someone comes along, and I'm sure plenty will, listen to your gut and don't settle for anything less than what's important to you. Everyone's different. It's not so much about pleasing the other person that you get lost in whether or not the other person is pleasing you. Be selective and you'll waste less time and the right one for you will come along. I wish someone would have given me this advice a long time ago, but I did learn through trial and error and am now in a great relationship.
2006-07-14 08:42:50 · answer #2 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is the answer you seek
To be capable to living life to it's fullest, you must fully immerse yourself with in life. and with direct respect to the existence of life we as humans have a very strong need to be loved.
The more love you are capable of giving, the more you are capable of receiving, and although you have been hurting with respect to your delicate situation which has left your heart bruised and sore, and left you in the state of despair in which you pose this question.
I would say this, If you wished very much to ride a horse, and you fell off, then at that point you have three choices.
1. you can choose to never ride a horse ever again, in which you will never know the pleasures.
2. you can get up, dust off your pants and jump back into the saddle, show your determination and concur your fear of being bucked off of horses.
3. you can lie upon the ground and cry about it, and when you are alone upon the ground in the middle of the forest, there will be no other person in which to know your sorrow, or to come to give you aid and help you up from the ground onto which you fell, and you will become just like a rose growing in the middle of the forest in which the numbers of trees which grow there are vast and there will be no one to observe your beauty with in it.
as I see it then while all choices are valid, there remains only one logical choice upon which to lend credence with respect to life, and that choice is number two.
By concurring your fear of horses after you have fallen out of the saddle, and jumping back upon the horse and riding it, not only will you become a excellent equestrian rider, but also you will gain the confidence through your actions by knowing that you will not let a simple thing as this keep you down, and not allowing your true beauty to shine for all to see.
The deeper you have felt pain, the higher you can rise to pleasure in the future, please use this experience as a stepping stone, and do not let anything keep you down or obscure your beauty from society.
I hope this is helpful to you, and I wish you the very best :)
2006-07-14 09:32:05 · answer #3 · answered by Thoughtfull 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said again did you give someone your heart and got hurt if so this can be a hard process. But take your time to heal then get back in the game It's not good to be along either next time be a little more cautions who you give your heart to.
2006-07-14 08:32:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because opening up your heart again helps heal the wounds of previous hurts. It helps us learn lessons and move on. Most people have been through a broken heart and find themselves finding love again. Ask me, been there.
2006-07-14 08:37:01 · answer #5 · answered by nicolekadman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because I did and am happily married and plan to stay that way forever. This is evidence that there is such thing as a perfect relationship (not to be confused with a perfect person). There is someone out there for you; you just have to keep looking. If you shut down, you will never find him/her.
2006-07-14 08:30:55 · answer #6 · answered by cucumberlarry1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just gotta b careful. Set standards. High standards that has always been my mistake. Literally map out your dream guy, write down the attributes you'd like him to have. It's a prooven fact that writing something down several times a day brings it to fruition.
2006-07-14 08:34:57 · answer #7 · answered by doesitmatter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How else you gonna find someone to love and spend the rest of your life with? I've been through the same.
2006-07-14 08:31:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you may not have to give them your heart but one day you will need someone for something. and i hfeel you on that part abut heart break.
2006-07-14 08:32:27 · answer #9 · answered by gotchafool05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because its the best thing to trust with... and the most dangerous. If it works, you are rewarded greatly.
2006-07-14 08:31:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋