2006-07-14 01:26:58 · 15 answers · asked by Aaron.M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Think of it as if you have something valuable,and you were so scared to use it because it might be broken,you hide it somewhere safe ...days went by and you found out that your valuable thing isn't that valuable anymore ....because you're not using it anymore,and it did no good to anyone.If someone did hurt you before,doesn't mean that everybody you love will be the same,you need to becareful that's all,other wise one day you'd find yourself lonely and yes your heart wouldn't be broken but then what good would it be,when you're so lonely with no one to love ...Find a proper person and becareful with your choice,that's all you need to do,not to shut it down!
2006-07-14 01:34:30 · answer #1 · answered by AB 4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because sometimes(actually often times), we are forced to do things that can hurt the people around us. We make decisions that have negative effects on others despite the fact that we do not want it to happen. Even if how much we care to a person, there'll be a point that you will be eventually hurting that person, whether we wanted to or not so that a better result (maybe future) will be achieved by the people that were affected...
Sometimes, time doesn't heal the wounds, but also sometimes, forgiveness releases the pain...
Note: Forgiveness is relative... It still depends on the extent and the nature of the damage, and the sincerity of the people asking for it...
2006-07-14 08:37:15 · answer #2 · answered by athame 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is too short to go thru alone. Sitting alone day after day, hiding yourself away from trusting another to love you will make your life feel like an eternity. Take the lessons you have learned from the past. Take the time to heal. Then you must take the chance to trust & love. Every new relationship is a leap of faith. After 2 failed marriages & another long term relationship gone bad. I stopped blaming them & I stopped blaming me. I thought long & hard about what I did not want & what I did. There's are chances that we take every single day. No one can predict the outcome. Take a chance for yourself.
2006-07-14 08:37:38 · answer #3 · answered by mdsredhen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to find these answers within your self.
well if you really want reasons here they are.
1. you could be passing up love
2. They could be the love of your life
3. they could be the one.
4. trust your self
5. open up if you can trust them
6. you just need to go through with it, and see what happens. if he breaks your heart.. theres always someone that wont hurt you.
theres 2 out of 5 thats at least decent. we all trust people with our hearts.. knowing it or not.., We just find that out when they broke our hearts and then we just use that, saying.. and then we fall deep within it all over again.
everyone is different.
2006-07-14 08:37:06 · answer #4 · answered by sweet_poetic_fire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is too short and you should not let what happen in the past to affect your present relationship. It is not fair to the other person. Secondly, the person might be "the one" if you don't give them a chance how will you know. we have to kiss a few frogs before we get to the prince. So think of your past relationships as practice until the real thing comes along
2006-07-14 08:35:14 · answer #5 · answered by bella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because there is no heartbreak worth allowing your heart to turn to stone. The person who broke your heart just plain wasn't the person for you, so why trust again? To find the one who is.
2006-07-14 08:30:24 · answer #6 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what ever you' ve passed through is not the first and will never be the last,pple have been there and will still be there. just because you met they wrong ones does not mean, good ones aren't there. the reason you 'll give your heart again is cos some nice one like is waiting.
2006-07-14 08:44:44 · answer #7 · answered by nini g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've been there and it's hard but u have to know that not all ppl are the same as the one u dated, whatever happened in ur past relationship is not gonna be the same person, just take what u learned and move onto another one, just hope for the best, good luck and take care of urself
2006-07-14 08:31:04 · answer #8 · answered by breni03_bsb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust dont have reasons.Its felt rom the heart.The thing donefrom heart doesnt require reasons.It just happens.Wanna b friend.Mail me at sunil_frn@yahoo.co.in
2006-07-14 08:30:54 · answer #9 · answered by sunil_frn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can do without trusting in someone again, do not trust in someone with your hearth again.
but do not hurt others treating as if they are all to-be-suspected persons.
2006-07-14 08:30:19 · answer #10 · answered by tapsev 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋