why is it alot of you think certain guys are out of your league so you dont bother to ask,did you ever think alot of guys (brains) would pick someone nice and they can talk to than beauty with no brains...remember looks dont last forever..also because you see a guy with a shaved head and tattoos doesnt mean hes any more of a man than a guy who doesnt,its whats in your heart that matters remember,i think what makes you a man are things like raising a family,being a good father,showing your family love and respect,that makes you a man..just my views guys!!
2006-07-14 01:20:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sometimes your outter apperence tells alot about a person and we ladies know what we want . You usally like what you r if your cleal and neat that is what you go for if you don't care about how u look then well u get the picture.
2006-07-14 01:25:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I absolutely agree. It's about time a man said that about his own group. In addition to what you said about the shaved head and tattoos...Just because a guy is walking around strutting your stuff, wearing baggy ragged edge khaki cargo shorts, a green polo shirt with the collar flipped up, and a pair of Old Navy sandals, doesn't mean he rules the world either. Your clothes can't speak for everything. Your outward appearance can only represent so much. People should be appreciated for who they are, not how they look and how they impress others with money and gadgets, i.e. Cell phones and iPods.
2006-07-14 10:42:55 · answer #2 · answered by TRUE1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been asking the same thing. Why oh why do nice guys and gals finish last? Why do people with more substance often get neglected? when you come to think of it, it is indeed a two way process as what they have stated above. But the thing is, we want everybody to like us, especially the ones who get to have all the attention. Because i think subconsciously, we think that in the process of the popular people's giving attention to you, they are transferring their popularity to you. and you are in some way being viewed as part of the IN crowd. belongingness. you feel accepted...even though with this acceptance you have lost or lowered the standards that you have built for yourself. you have allowed yourself to deal and mingle with the BETTER instead of the BEST.
personally, i always have and always will like nice guys. i value the things that you have said above. but the thing is, through time, we get disillusioned...as we walk through life our enthusiasm/views wavers and our strength wanes. there are some who give in, while there are those who fight for the best til the end. those who fight for the best, will often wonder why others don't view things the way they do and end up asking this kind of questions (half kidding). My suggestion, mingle with the right crowd. don't let the lowered standards get to you. you deserve the best.
my friend told me this quote that she came across..."to find the right person (for you), you must first be the right person".
2006-07-14 09:45:36 · answer #3 · answered by abstemious_entity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are absolutely correct! It's what's inside that counts. You have to have to be able to communicate with each other. Looks fade your personality doesn't. But you have to admit that there still must be a chemistry between 2 people.
Are you single? If not I can see why. You should like a very smart, compassionate and responsible man. Any girl would be lucky to have you.
2006-07-14 08:25:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish more guys were like you. You sound like a great guy. Not all men are the same as you though and they do go after the gorgeous girls. My husband looks at all the pretty girls no matter how good I look. I can work on myself for hours, look hot and he doesn't even look at me. He'll oogle other girls every time they come by him. I wish I'd never met him!
2006-07-14 08:43:30 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea that is very true those are good values in a man. Maybe wethink certain guys are out of our league because certain guys only mess with certain girls....who knows!
2006-07-14 08:23:14 · answer #6 · answered by $D*Da*Spoild*1$ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup you sound like every woman's dream. I personally don't think anyone is necessarily out of my 'league" but for me personally I feel like this, If he is interested he'll ask me. Last two times I did the asking and both times the relationship ended. I am not going to do it again.
2006-07-14 08:29:16 · answer #7 · answered by doesitmatter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What specifically is your question, um, maybe girls are just shy, and there's not much more to it than that. Doesn't mean that they go for tatoos or think that you don't actually want to talk to them about their brains. And it doesn't mean that they don't think men are men because they are good men. Does this attempt to answer anything?
2006-07-14 08:28:50 · answer #8 · answered by anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think most guy are out of my league (especially if they good looking) mainly because i think they wont think beautiful enough and that they're egoistic and think they can have any girl... so why would they choose me? I think i just stereotype goodlooking guys as being jerks...
2006-07-14 08:25:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree but the first thing you notice on a person is their look no matter what ppl say and some ppl just do not want to give another TYPE of person a chance and it is wrong but i think as we get older we learn to give more ppl chances and start to not look at looks b./c like you said we do not have our looks forever....
2006-07-14 08:24:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋