A new girl started at my work, I had never met her but everyone kept telling me how nice she was. Last week i was paired up to work with her and we got on like a house on fire , she gave my her number which she said was for work and that was that. I`ve just recieved a txt from her and she wants to go out this weekend. I never got any signals from her and i`m a bit confused. The main problem is that i`m not one of lifes confidant good looking guys and people from my work say that we are a different league to which i agree. I never been in this situation before i think its a friend thing but the signals are mixed ,, Please help ta
2006-07-14 01:08:40 · 14 answers · asked by AlexD 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You won't know yet -- she doesn't expect you to know because you all haven't even gone out on a personal level yet. Just go - have fun - see how it goes. You never know. Don't let anyone tell you you are from a "different league" -- that makes no sense. She evidently enjoys your company at work. I met my best friend (I'm female) at work and he and I are and have been close for quite a long time. I would not trade that relationship in for anything. We don't work together anymore but I still see him and talk to him frequently. Whether it is a romantic interest or a friendship -- don't just ignore it. Either way, it could be a rewarding relationship. Have fun!!! Get the "different league" stuff out of your head too. This from experience (I'm NO kid - in my 40s) --- did you know that sometimes if people are NOT alike - can make the best relationships!!
2006-07-14 01:15:53 · answer #1 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Go out with her. Any relationship needs to start somewhere, and it usually works best when you start off as friends. Go out, have a good time, and RELAX. Return the favor in a week or two, txt her back and invite her to an event. Be her friend first, and see where it goes. You don't have anything to lose. You won't know until you try, but if you try too hard it's a turn off. Good luck hun.
2006-07-14 01:14:43 · answer #2 · answered by Laura W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
work and pleasure is never good but why not go out for a drink and have a chat. There is nothing wrong with that and see how things good. Never think that you are not good enough or in different legue, people look for different qualities in people they like. Have confidence and go for a drink and enjoy it. Just start off as friends and see.
2006-07-14 01:16:02 · answer #3 · answered by Pinkflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't from a different league - you are both human, so stop discounting yourself. And she only asked you to hang out, not to get married so don't analyze it too much. Go hang out with the thought that she is your sister in your head; that way you won't screw anything up if she does indeed like you more than a friend. She seems confident enough to chase you for now, so enjoy it.
2006-07-14 01:15:43 · answer #4 · answered by VNCGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was in your situation, I would first play things as if you two are only friends going out to have fun just like you would with any other friend. See how she continues to act around you and towards you. If she starts to act like she's into you, then maybe she is. It's not always about looks. You can be the finest guy but have the worst attitude!!!
2006-07-14 01:17:38 · answer #5 · answered by pooh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she got more interested after getting to know you better. Ignore the acquaintances of yours who are talking about a "different league." Take the girl out and see how it goes.
2006-07-14 01:29:12 · answer #6 · answered by wmp55 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come mate just relax and be a man she won't kill you in this situation you have to be the master don't let any thought to confuse you you go out with her, have a good time, have a good conversation with her you never know where this conversation might lead you just relax and be wise
2006-07-14 01:14:27 · answer #7 · answered by Lord Glyde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead and accept her invitation to leave your house, if she wants to be distant and talk about work, talk about work, however if she takes you to a noisy bar, you know that you are not there to chat. be careful and open minded, yet let her be forward and start the relationship, if that is what you want. however keep in mind that business and pleasure are difficult to maintain at the same time and can possibly get you fired if not handled maturely.
2006-07-14 01:17:47 · answer #8 · answered by darla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-07 22:03:15 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful! Never a good idea to mix dating and work......try to be friends, thnink twice about anything beyond that.
2006-07-14 01:10:38 · answer #10 · answered by Stef K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋