one of my guy friends says that he won't date good girls ( Wifey's he calls them) now because he isn't ready to settle down yet, but he said that if he happened to find her he he didn't know if he could wait until marriage ( this is relevant to me because i am waiting until i get married...) what about you guys could you?
2006-07-14 01:03:21 · 13 answers · asked by Carly j 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just wanted to let you know that i actually did wait,for just over three months,and the wait was well worth it
2006-07-14 01:18:58 · answer #1 · answered by sajid970 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whether to have sex or not is never a unilateral decision from a guy alone. I believe that both the guy and gurl involved should take the decision together to have sex, otherwise, we may refer to that sexual intercourse as rape. If viewed from the perspective of being an outlet of emotion(s), then I believe that there should be no bad feelings about when sex should take place. I think we must also establish the fact that the more the "couple" engage in sexual intercourse, the more they discover new techniques and innovations about it, and the closer and more united they become - physically and emotionally.
2006-07-14 01:18:18 · answer #2 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is possible, --from the literature, not from any vast experience of my own-that both men, and women, have two separate fantasies that they chase, or at least consider.
There's the one you want to be "wild" with- raw animal passion; and then there's the type you want to bring home and settle down with.
Once a guy has sewn his wild oats--or the same for women, for that matter- and some maturity comes, then there is patient love, and yes, then one is willing to wait for marriage.
But years later, the same kind of conflict can erupt, whereupon women and men seek to get some "flame" back into their lives, and have affairs.
My guess is that this is a built-in conflict between our animal natures, versus our cultural and moral values.
2006-07-14 01:17:41 · answer #3 · answered by DinDjinn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even as i became in my early 1920s I married a lady who believed entire heartedly in abstinence before marriage. Our honeymoon became even as she lost her virginity and he or she became some thing yet a chilly fish. She became a wild freak of a ingredient in mattress besides as being a actual existence Jesus Freak.you mustn't choose a e book by technique of the cover. Plus what she realized about proper a guy she realized from me. i became waiting to sort this sex gadget into precisely what i wanted sexually from a lady. in spite of the indisputable fact that i'm no longer in my early 1920s or maybe everywhere close to my 1930s and at this level of existence my frame of mind has replaced and that i do not imagine i'd wait round for the interesting and video games to start up.
2016-12-01 06:33:56 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes will wait until marriage for going the full distance to preserve the joy of the novelty.
2006-07-14 01:05:53 · answer #5 · answered by Murali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ofcourse i would, if the woman in question is decent, loving, caring, will look after our kids at home while i go and work hard to make a living for us. If she would not screw around and look forward to seeing me everyday after work, won't nag all the time i'd love her for the rest of my life! But that kind of woman don't exist now. They got rocks for brains these days!
2006-07-14 01:11:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
100 yrs ago yeah. but we live in a highly informed world, and we demand results very quickly. Id hate to be with my dream girl only to find out shes a plank in bed. also remeber 100 years ago. women really did not have a chance to compete in the mating game, they kinda went with the farm or what ever. thank god things have changed! I love smart, funny beautiful women! but "im quoting someone from yahoo awnswers here" you have to kick the tires before you buy!!
2006-07-14 01:16:24 · answer #7 · answered by Jonas V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is worthy to wait but nowadays nobody wont to wait until they get married but you are the only one who's going to make the decision whether you want to wait or not....
2006-07-14 01:09:27 · answer #8 · answered by Lord Glyde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are waiting until marriage, they are probably screwing around with someone else to keep their stress level down. Do you really want that? I wouldn't.
2006-07-14 01:09:26 · answer #9 · answered by anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im not aguy...but still...u need to knw how active and compatiable ur man is sexuallywid u!!! so...being a gurl..id give it a try!!!! all d best
2006-07-14 01:06:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋