my boyfriend is 19 and i am 14 i dont see the age as a issue and nore does my family but my friends however dont shut up about it i love him sop much i prefere older bois because they are more matre nd dont only want sex boys my age dont really pay interest in me am i wrong for going out with him just so u all no he makes me the happiest grl alive i love him :.)
2006-07-14 01:03:08 · 9 answers · asked by trickeykids@btinternet.com 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Feels like Im talking to my 16 year old sister. Sweetie if you think that's bad, my sister is 16 years old and her boyfriend is 24!!!He is more childish than any 10 year old boy I know. Age doesn't measure maturity. You are inlove with him, regardless of age. I dont think its just because he's older and more mature.YOU are more mature that's why you like him so much. You are not interested in things that people your age are interested in.However you must remember that when guys aged 17 to 19 years old, are at their sexual peak. This is when their sex drive will be the at its strongest. Just some advice.Dont let anyone force you into anything, if its your friends telling you to leave him or if its him pressuring you to have sex. You are still very young and you are going to have tons of boyfriends. Dont make your life about someone else, make it about you.Have fun and dont do anything you are going to regret!LOL
2006-07-14 01:19:25 · answer #1 · answered by Jade22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, if he is what makes you happy then dont worry too much about what other people say. Some people see age as prerequisit but is basically should not be considered, unless that is your a pervert.
You see, my husband and I are 17 years apart. Everyone gave us hell. They said it would never work. Well I am here to tell you, 16 years later, that we are still together and couldnt be more in love. By the way, I was young also when we got together, I was 16.
2006-07-14 01:08:34 · answer #2 · answered by dodiewayne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age matters in this situation. You are jail bait and he could end up behind bars for even talkin to you like a boyfriend. The law says you are too young to make a decision about being in love and i agree. I expect this much from you at 14 but what is his dam problem at 19. He needs a ride on the clue bus.
2006-07-14 01:07:27 · answer #3 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is not a problem with it, but your friends are just looking out for you. They see it as statutory rape where as you see it as love (head over heels). I know that feeling. I was 13 when i had my boyfriend and he was 19. Lets just say I was very curious at that time, I have learn a lot from tha experience.
Now that i am 18 have a new boyfriend his 22 and a new state of mind. Just be mindful of what you do. Don't do anything that you don't what too and be safe.
2006-07-14 01:17:18 · answer #4 · answered by Badass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure you are flattered that an older boy is paying you attention. At the age of 14 you are really not ready to commit to a relationship. It might feel like "Love" to you, but most likely you are just infatuated and happy to be in his company. And don't think your friend is not interested in sex. It is normal for a boy his age to want to experience with girls. It is also illigal to have a sexual relationship with a minor. Do you love him enough to risk sending him to jail? Go and enjoy your girlfirends and wait with the dating. You have a whole life ahead of you.
2006-07-14 01:09:53 · answer #5 · answered by helen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend can still get into big trouble. Most places have laws where anyone over 18 can not have a relationship with anyone under 18, or risk going to jail. If you love him that much, you won't mind waiting a few years until you're old enough to pursue the relationship without any worries.
2006-07-14 01:07:32 · answer #6 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most important thing for you right now is to focus on being 14, staying in school and making sure your decisions will not leave you vulnerable when you get older. It may not seem like it but you need to make sure that you can support yourself when you reach a certain age.
2006-07-14 01:08:43 · answer #7 · answered by Stef K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age is not a matter of love...don take a number in ur heart.. if u love each other then .....it's not a big problem
2006-07-14 01:13:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur happy with it and ur bf also theres nothing that can stop u from loving each other
2006-07-14 01:08:22 · answer #9 · answered by sarmie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋