im in this situation where i want to tell some one something but i feel weird telling her but i get this feeling whenever im about to tell her... by the way that person is my mom!
2006-07-14 00:34:40 · 15 answers · asked by Hill 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
mom, i know you've done the best job you possibly could have raising me and i thank you and love you for it. i've done something you are not going to be proud of; i'm not too proud of myself right now,either, but i also need to take responsability for my actions (and i will need all of your support for this one) like you've taught me to do. i'm pregnant.
i've had this talk with my own step children and i still love them as my own. and i am proud of the way they each dealt with the situation. (3 different outcomes from 3 different 'talks')
2006-07-14 03:01:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Mom I want to talk to you about something, So I am going to sit you down for the first time, don't matter what the out come of this may be, you are going to be my mother, for ever, I don't want to
think that I am rude, or any thing like that, but I have to get this off my chest, Mon I don't like the way you dress for a grown woman, you have been running round with men and going wild, and I don't think this is app orate, so Mon will you please stop for my sake
2006-07-14 08:00:37 · answer #2 · answered by boy_jam_arch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say, "Mom, I need to talk to you person-to-person, not mom-to-daughter." I don't know you or how old you are, but don't let your emotions influence your discussion. Treat the conversation as if it is a business meeting: "Leave your feelings at the door." You both can deal with your feelings after the talk.
If the talk is about feelings, try thinking first whether or not you just got your feelings hurt & need to grow up a bit!
2006-07-14 07:40:43 · answer #3 · answered by himalayaplaya69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Peace
2006-07-14 07:37:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, just be careful how u say it, don't blow it all at once, be patient, explain things carefully and also be aware of her feelings as well as urs but tell her that it's something u really needed to get off ur chest but talk in a manner in where u make ur point across but not too agressively
2006-07-14 07:37:22 · answer #5 · answered by breni03_bsb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think before you speak and always remember to keep you tone under control. Say it with a smile or 1/2 smile on your face. But be a little firm so you can get your point across.
**Good luck**
2006-07-14 07:39:07 · answer #6 · answered by Lost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes, when you dun mean to be rude, ppl misunderstand and feel you are rude. If she's your mom, she will understand your lingo. And esp since she is your mom, no one knows her best except you! you shd be able to figure out what she can accept and phrase yourself appropriately. Good luck!!! :)
2006-07-14 07:45:09 · answer #7 · answered by happymommy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you could tell her in a polite way. Tell her that you don't wish to hurt her but just wanna to tell her the truth.
2006-07-14 07:38:54 · answer #8 · answered by simplegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is rude who knows it might be good for you
Don't take it inside and still be good to her.
I know saying is difficult than performing but still try it.
Becoz she is your mom.
2006-07-14 07:42:28 · answer #9 · answered by crak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest, talk from your heart, and do not use accusing words like you and your. Tell her it is important to listen to you because it is really bothering you and then ask for her input.
Good luck, I will keep my fingers crossed for you.
2006-07-14 07:39:22 · answer #10 · answered by lovethebeanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋