Older women?

Question

Why do young guys love the older woman? Just look at old Patsy Kensit, the toy boys love her. Also, the guys interested in me seem to be around 12 years younger than me.....what do I do to deserve that? Can I have clean answers please?

Oh, I'm 39 by the way. ( I act about 10....nah, I have the mental age of a 25 year old I'd say) ...And, no, I definately ain't a lesbo. Though why my question would evoke that answer I do not know, funny though.

Answer 1

Your 39, Jesus christ monkey balls Amanda- I tought you were 24!
+can I be your toyboy? you sexy lady. I guess its the thrill of being with an experienced woman that turns us on so much.
Oh it's a thrilling thought!
But I would NEVER do it with a married woman- THANK GOD you're divorced.
(I'm really sorry if you took that badly)

Answer 2

All about experience and confidence older people have. Young girls love older men also. I am 42 an in the last 5 years have had sex with women between 19 and 30. I cant get a woman my own age because they are with younger guys.

Answer 3

Probably you are a very charming and enthusiastic girl. But as you are older and more mature then those guys, you shouldn't be letting those guys to feel for you in that way, you shouldn't be inspiring those thoughts. Don't spoil yourself with other guys and be the way girls really should be and I'm sure you'll find a decent nice guy, who will totally love you.

Answer 4

I think some guys do prefer older women because they are more mature and socially more experienced. They may treat younger guys better and make the guys feel more secure. Guess what? I find younger guys attracted to me, although I never do anything to draw such kind of attention or attraction to myself. I think it's something natural, perhaps.

Answer 5

Amanda you are far from the older lady! As for young men and their attractions? It comes down to personality and the way you come across, age does not matter in the great scheme of things. Happiness does and the power of our minds means that it reaches across age.

Answer 6

I have always prefered older women older than me. They are not nearly so fickle and tend to be experienced in life and know what they want (opposite of fickle). Maturity is attractive. Womens bodies have develped more, curves over sticks figures ie slim hips and bosom. They are more fun to talk to and seem to be more graceful. They also know how to wear make up better. Hmmm I know there are more reasons I just can't think of.

So...Hi how are you lol

Answer 7

Go for it. I've been with my "toy boy" for 11 years and we still love each other deeply and say it every day. We have a 13yr age gap. He 'thinks' older than his age, and I don't act mine, so we meet somewhere in the middle. I met him when he was 25.

Answer 8

Thats how all older men feel when a younger woman fancies them, Iv just bedded a fit 18 yr old who I work with, he was alot more attentive.

Answer 9

toy boys are for 2 reasons
1: money
2: they prefer that all generation people discuss them as they go out with some known to his parents as a celeb :)

Answer 10

It could be sexual compatibility.
Guys are at their prime at a young age, wheras women become more sexually active when they are older - so they have similar sex drives, and hence the toyboy syndrome.
Conversely, older men prefer younger women!
It all makes sense, strangely!

Answer 11

Less competition because you are at the prime not the other older party. Thus, less stress in chasing an older lady.