A friend who became more than a friend eventually...not very "masculine" or manly but very sweet and caring...same thing in bed - very considerate and willing, but ultimately not very satisfying...
Need really serious advice...please help...
2006-07-14 00:03:39 · 14 answers · asked by RJ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay my advice is, if you choose a guy who is bad and rough who doesn't cares about you but really very good in bed then I assure you that you would never be happy with him. Because it is a lot easier to please yourself physically then mentally. If your life partner doesn't satisfies you with love then it doesn't really matter if he can satisfies you physically. But if he can make you happy mentally then things like orgasm or such things won't be a huge matter, you can pleasure yourself in those in otherways. You are a lucky girl to found someone like that.
2006-07-14 00:10:21 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do you love this man? Do you want to spend the rest of your life with him? Sex is important but it is not everything! Sex can be good before you get married but may cool down....So, if the man is really wonderful to you, I will say go for it! You can surely share your experience with him and improve his skill! Good luck!
2006-07-14 00:10:39 · answer #2 · answered by hhbasile 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's certainly easier to teach that guy to be more performing in bed than to teach a jerk who's a super sex-machine to be intelligent.
2006-07-14 00:08:27 · answer #3 · answered by Steaming emotions 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your problem with him in bed can be solved somehow..i think you should get that guy,at least give him a try,but if this problem is perminant then i think marrying wouldnt be so successful
2006-07-14 00:06:41 · answer #4 · answered by AB 4 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Shouldn't get married until you work out sex problems and you are sure you's love each other.
2006-07-14 00:08:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you like it I'm sure in a few months it will get better maybe you can spice it up a little or maybe it you
2006-07-14 00:08:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you love him then marry him if all you care about is how good he is in bed then dont
2006-07-14 00:06:24 · answer #7 · answered by links305 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you like, Maybe he just needs practice. Be his teacher. You guys can work this out.
2006-07-14 00:05:49 · answer #8 · answered by bigdog_0032 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can teach him to be a GREAT lover.........but I would still say No, then one thing you never said was that you loved him....no love? no marriage....it is the single most important part of marriage.....
2006-07-14 00:07:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My answer is "NO". If he is not a good in bed than it is not good for you to go to bed.
2006-07-14 00:09:47 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋