I'm a girl and find that I don't know if I'm gay or straight as I notice attractive qualities in both. How do you know for real as everyone at some point has feelings for the opposite sex?
2006-07-13 23:57:08 · 12 answers · asked by celene s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im not gay but i can look at a woman and think she is attractive,i think its when u find a woman sexually y attractive and you want to have sex with one!! I dont have experience in that kind of thing,so i dont know for sure,good luck
2006-07-14 00:24:52 · answer #1 · answered by Sherry Baby ( Ethan's Mama ) 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well from a gay person's point of view it's ask yourself the following questions. 1) Who do you find yourself looking at the most, male or female? 2)Who do you fantasise about being with the most? 3)Who turns you on the most? If you answer female to most of them then you may be lesbian. If male, well then you are straight. Some people go through this phase where they are attracted to the same sex but it turns out to be nothing. Trust me I am speaking from experience, I have 2 STRAIGHT boyfriends!!!
2006-07-14 03:11:56 · answer #2 · answered by Oracle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's no right answer for this question. approx. 10% of the population are gay (low figure) within that group many are exclusively gay or sometimes go for the opposite sex. some are bi-curious, they just want to see what it's like and some people are bi-sexual they just enjoy both. don't stress yourself about it. it really should be about the person anyway.whatever you decide to do , don't let anyone make you feel guilty or ashamed for being who you are.
2006-07-14 05:22:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just follow the natural course of nature! If you have female genitalia then sexual intercourse should be with a male. Looking at the human anatomy heterosexual intercourse (btw man and woman) is physically more intimate and fulfilling (than between women) and less injurious (than btw men). having feelings of affection and friendship for the same sex is natural but will only become sexually if you choose to pursue it. Nature has certain laws such as that of gravity and it takes unnatural manipulations to defy it. likewise its unnutural thots that lead to unnatural sexual performances. Be careful with 'experimenting, as not all experiments lead to the truth. Just follow the natural course of life so obviously evident in you body!
2006-07-14 01:02:36 · answer #4 · answered by Doc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sleep with both sexes. At the same time would be better as you could switch between the 2 and then see which you prefer.
2006-07-14 00:00:36 · answer #5 · answered by V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, next time you are doing the sweaty two-backed horizontal monkey dance with the object of your desires, have a quick shufti, and if they are the same sex as yourself, then yup, you're gay. Bent as a badger. Works every time.
2006-07-14 00:22:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think really you just know. But as someone above me said, the best way to find out is to experiment & see what you prefer. You could just be a greedy-bi hehe.
2006-07-14 00:03:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anon-y-mouse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like munching on rugs, that's usually a sign in women.
2006-07-14 00:01:19 · answer #8 · answered by law c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun you could just be Bisexual. Dont worry about it too much, you dont want to stress yourself out about this.
2006-07-14 00:02:04 · answer #9 · answered by Pinkflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know I'm not gay, (i'm a bloke) because I want to have sex with sherry baby. Thanks sherry for helping me define my sexuality.
2006-07-14 01:06:31 · answer #10 · answered by V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋