How to find Miss Right??

Question

25, city trader, six figure income .... yet I suck at relationships. I'm a nice guy, and devilishly good looking ..... what is the best way to find a girl? coz all the girls I see in this country seem to be slags, I like em sweet and innocent, approachable, but yet sexy and good looking ... where do such girls exist? apart from in America!

anyone who thinks I'm ugly can email me at [e-mail], and I'll send you a picture

Answer 1

When you say devilishly good looking you mean you look like a chimpanzee, right? I just wanna get an idea of how far off the mark you probably are swinging your bat.

Answer 2

Oops. You have made quite a few mistakes.

First of all you don't "find a girl". Girls are everywhere. Go out. Meet people and you will find them.

Second of all, you seem to be harboring a lot of anger towards women.
This is natural. Why? It seems that all the "hoops" that you have to jump through to find someone that you want to be with can be insurmountable. It is frustrating, tenacious and aggravating. Hence the anger. Time to let go. Let go of the anger. The "slags" that you seem to keep seeing can feel your anger and are running from you.

If you are a city trader, I'm guessing London. If you are in London, you will never have a better chance of meeting available and fantastic looking women. There are great women of all shades, shapes and sizes here. Stop coming from a place of scarcity.

A few notes about women,
"I like em sweet and innocent, approachable, but yet sexy and good looking"
No. No. No.
All women are people, and as such can be all of those things.

It's just that women have whats been called a "*****-shield".
Think about this:
What would your life be like if you were pursued by women of all shapes and sizes?
You couldn't possibly have sex with all of them...not only would you get bored very quickly...you would also not have time for all of them. So you would have to develop strategies to protect yourself. You know, like:
-- Not smiling as much
-- No eye contact (unless interested)
-- Not being friendly.
-- Really being selective (right hieght, looks, money), because you can be.

The good news is that there is a solution for all of that.

Look. I get the sense from this post that you don't really want to get this problem solved, that you are stuck on your own three-ring circus of self pity and I am wasting my time.

However, If you want more information on how to get this fixed.
Do the following:
-- Read "The Game" by Neil Strauss.
-- Get out of the house, and make a life that you want to live in.
-- Contact others who can help you. (see sources.)

Just get out and do it.
Or
Stay in your house, fuming at all the "slags" that are out there.

The choice is completely yours.

Answer 3

Sometimes the only way to find Miss Right is by no finding at all. The person that you will fall in love with will come your way. She will look into your eyes and she will see love as well. You will find one another in the right time. Here are some ways you can describe that someone has that special twist towards your feelings!

1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!

Answer 4

Get off of yahoo and the computer. Sit down and make a list of "miss right" everything she is and is not to you. Then pray or meditate upon that list every day and don't stop. Next get out and be what you are, nothing more nothing less, the good and the bad. Speak only what's true, don't candy coat or spice it up, be yourself. Indulge yourself in your hobbies, but in a social way. Take your privet bugar collection from under the table and go to trade shows, art classes, swap meets, whatever, so the world will see. Low and behold some where out there is a girl that will like you for who you are and what you are. When you see her faults, if they're not on the list don't write her off, be kind and generous, and real.

Answer 5

Well you may have to leave the country but try to find someone you are compatible with. I had a friend with a husband that fit your description and after she married him she found out he had a temper and was abusive. Not saying this is you but have you looked at yourself lately? Maybe you have some issues to deal with and good looks and a six figure income won't last forever and is not the answer to finding 'Miss Right'

Answer 6

I recommend Yahoo Personals. I went on there after having been single for ages, and having met a few guys, it definitely seems like everybody's totally normal. After all, everybody has the internet nowadays, so it's not just freaks n geeks. And the profile lets you see all sorts of things that you would never find out when first approaching someone in the pub, like political leanings, TV watching tastes, education level... good luck!

Answer 7

You'll always struggle with your attitude i'm afraid. It's not your job or money that counts - it's your personality - and thinking of women as slags and placing good looking and approachable as attributes for a good relationship isn't going to work . Sorry

Answer 8

Take your time, there is someone there waiting for you.The more you fool around with them the more chances you miss of finding your rib.Try to find time to join clubs where you can easily mix with them, a church where good morals are encouraged, etc. Once you find someone dont't rush into having sex as this will only lead you to loosing intrest in her because you will have tested the forbiden fruit.Once again you find that person, take your time with her so that, you are able to share your intrests and don'ts.By doing so, you will discover what type of person she is.

Answer 9

i like LEBINESE gals so much they are heavenly pretty woman. more likely arabic woman are so cool
but man i will say to find someone who is honest and sincere with u no matter america or arab ...looks never matters.

what if u r not MR right for the woman u think is Ms right for u ;)

Answer 10

if you have any female friend , talk to her, if you have sister, thats the best so she will advice you what are expectations of woman,

and second thing, if you spot nice looking girl on the street, ask her for number, yes just ask her for number!
you can add something that she is beautiful and than ask for number.