I'm still young(20), I'm a 34B. My bf says I look fine, but he flirts with girls who are bigger (chest wise)all the time. He says he's happy with me, a few of my girl friends think it'll improve my self confidence. It seems like it would hurt. anyone get them done? before during and after a while, what do you think?...
2006-07-13 23:29:23 · 20 answers · asked by sex_hard_love 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If YOU want them get them. They are great. If does hurt a lot, the first three days were hell, but they give you meds. After the first month your back to normal.
Shop around for a good doctor, and research what you want.
Boobs are great.
2006-07-13 23:39:03 · answer #1 · answered by loveorlust06 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all yes you do have the perfect size breasts. There are a lot of reasons to have breast augmentation. Some of them are legitimate. You have to make sure you are doing it for the right reason. It has to be for you. A couple of my friends' wives had them done and they never regretted it. They were both very small and it was an issue of self esteem, not because of what they felt other people saw but what they saw. They both had to shop in the girls section to find clothes that fit but could never find the fashions that they wanted. Then when they went to the womens section to find the fashions that they wanted they couldn't find a size that they could fill out. So they both had them done. By the way my friends, the husbands, loved their wives completely and were totally devoted to them before and still do after. Just a little to think about. You should tell your b/f that it bothers you that he flirts with other women, big or small. That's just wrong. He should be flirting with you and trying to get you into bed. grrrrrr
2006-07-14 07:13:09 · answer #2 · answered by rsqur 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no, I don't think no females should do it. But what they aren't telling you is that they cause back pains and mess up your back , plus they fill strange. And if they would really improve your self confindence is a big sign that your not ready for them. Most females have the implant remove and happen to be pissed that they spend the money that they could spend else where. But at 20 your breast are still growing. But remember you would notice the implates because it is plastic in your body. Your breast would fill different.
2006-07-14 06:39:25 · answer #3 · answered by houtexknights330 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No no no! Fake boobs are nasty. You can tell they're fake straight away and it is such a turn off! Absolutely no need unless for medical or disfigurement reasons, especially if you're just going to do it because you think your current bf will prefer it. Don't waste your money in order to be a plastic clone...
Besides, you're still young. I think you should wait and see as your confidence grows and priorities change as you get older. You may wonder why the hell you wanted to change them!
2006-07-14 06:56:54 · answer #4 · answered by Cagey 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you have a very good size (34) and don't get a boob job coz then your boy friend might not be able to play with them. There are some other problems too as my ex-girl friend did the same and then after a few weeks there was puss in her breasts.So I won't ask you to spoil your own beauty.
2006-07-14 06:39:04 · answer #5 · answered by dua 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you are too young to get them increased. I have had girlfriends who have had DD breasts and some with A cups. But then, I just love breasts. Your b/friend is flirting with other women because he's male - it has nothing to do with the size of your breasts. My advise to you is give him everything that he wants - even ask him if he would like to get another girl with larger breasts involved in some three way action? If you love him and you want to keep him, let him explore his sexuality with you and your friends and then, once he is complete, he will love you even more and never dare to leave you.
2006-07-14 06:39:59 · answer #6 · answered by AdviseLine 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't do it. Natural is better. You can tell if they're fake or not very well! The fake ones are ugly. Every girl wasn't meant to have big boobs, you were probably just meant to be a small boobed girl, like me. I love mine and my boyfriend loves them just the way they are. Oh and If your boyfriend really loved you he would have no desire to flirt with other girls.
2006-07-14 06:46:24 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Ms. Heart♥ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
silly of u if u go 4 it.believe in urself....u r god created and beautiful the way u r.its only u who can boost ur self confidence not ur fake breasts...as for ur boyfriend,i think he will stay the same even after u get implants.its his nature to ogle at other women and u cant stop it like this Ur friends....if they were 4 real,they would have never suggested u such athing at least i would never had..believe in urself.change ur guy instead of ur boobs.good luck
2006-07-14 06:38:56 · answer #8 · answered by trustadevil 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, you should not....you would be amazed how many men do not like a fake breast......he is flirting with everyone, because he is a guy...and the fact they have big breasts, matters not.....he is just a dog...tell him it hurts you when he does it, and lastly.......self confidence is not what you ahve, or what you do not have....it is a state of mind.....personally, and very much my opinion.....you have the perfect sized breasts......
2006-07-14 06:34:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to get a better boyfriend that respects you. He shouldn't be flirting in front of you. He is making you conscious of wanting to get an augmentation. He is playing games with you. Do some serious research and counseling of you decide to do this but don't do it for him. Do it for yourself but I would advise against it.
2006-07-14 06:40:57 · answer #10 · answered by amissybell 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋