2006-07-13 23:24:18 · 18 answers · asked by ssagittarius78 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i broke up also with some one. i couldnt prove he was cheating, but he had all the signs and smyptoms of a cheater. he lied, he acted as if he didnt care. but the part i miss most was the good times not the bad. i always loved myself. but when we broke up . i questioned the reason to even try anymore. i still sometimes think about him. its only been 5 days. we have broke up before. but i have to move on. so do you. you have yourwhole life ahead of you. no one on this earth is worth giving up on your own life. cuz if you do it will be fore nothing cuz they dont care. so why even bother. just remember its there lost. its hard to find a soulmate anyway.i know its hard but keep trying always. how can anyone love you if you cant even love youself. besides men are just that way. selfcentered. so look out for you and mister right will come along right when you not expecting it. but make sure you have taken time out for yourself. to feel better. so you can return the love.
2006-07-13 23:35:25 · answer #1 · answered by eaglestraces123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say he was cheating and then you say you want a reason live. You are lucky that he was still your boyfriend when he was cheating you had he been your husband it would have been a tragedy.My personal theory is that Once a cheater always a cheater. Cheating with a planned mind set and for the fun of it should never be forgiven he has to be dumped and kicked in his bearings. But some times which is very rare there have been cases where a man looses his control for just that fraction of a moment and he commits this mistake. but that person also realises his mistake and repents for it. Such mistakes can be considered and given a thought.
As for you if you have really dumped him and want to get ahead in life get a job try to get your self busy and occupied. The best and the most sure shot remedy is play with small children. Doesn't matter whose children they are relatives or neighbours or just some kids in the park. Small children are angels they cure you of every thing. Remember how you grandparents killed those long and lonely hours with you around.
2006-07-13 23:46:44 · answer #2 · answered by SPEEDO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was a cheat..and it one less thing you have to wonder/worry about so getting rid of him should make you smile and feel better about what's to come. You broke up with him so the decision was yours. And although it was hard, you showed him you are not willing to accept his cheating just to be with him. Pat yourself on the back, alot of people arent willing to leave a relationship that isnt good for them for the fear of being alone. The reason to live is because the loss of a relationship is not a reason to give up. Besides someone new is going to come along. Give it time and empower yourself in the meantime.
2006-07-13 23:43:59 · answer #3 · answered by philly_q_t_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your heart is hurting because you're remembering the coolest circumstances together. there is an truly fantastic line between love and hate, exhilaration and soreness. The soreness on your heart is amazingly actual and, internally, you're hoping that a reconciliation will ease this soreness. you're placing your self up for a 2d jolt! A 4-month boyfriend who cheats is only a short-time period fling. get over it. provide up sitting round and moaning over him. bypass out with acquaintances who're distinctive interesting. employ humorous videos instead of weepy chick-flicks. He hasn't called you to beg for forgiveness so that you've were given the message. he's purely no longer "into you" as a lot. He strayed. he remains searching. grab your self-comprehend and flow on. it truly is amazingly unhappy that you lost your virignity to this creep in spite of the indisputable fact that it does no longer mean that you're "free" or a tramp. Breathe deeply. Stand tall. And be better careful the subsequent time you imagine you're in love! interest can take over your mind very immediately and a damaged heart HURTS!!! Be grateful you probably did not get pregnant and also you nevertheless have a awesome destiny to locate the right guy!
2016-12-01 06:31:19 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of reasons to live!
Why would you let one cheating lout ruin your whole life? Move on, and quickly.
Seriously, if you are contemplating suicide, get help immediately. Talk to a professional... A doctor or clergyman. Call the suicide hotline, at the very least!
2006-07-13 23:30:32 · answer #5 · answered by crazyotto65 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sucks don't it? I'm sorry you're hurting. I never cheated myself so I don't really get it and why people do that. Are they just too cowardly to break up before they move on to someone new? If your eyes and thoughts are else where, move on! Don't drag me through the mud TOO, before you go. If you ever cared, care enough to break up first. It hurts a whole lot less. If the creep did that, don't be bummed, he wasn't worth it anyway. Why question whether your life is worth caring on just because his isn't? Nobody, and I mean NOBODY! is worth losing it over. Love yourself first.
2006-07-13 23:37:35 · answer #6 · answered by Love is the principle thing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By breaking up with your cheating boyfriend and anticipating a new boyfriend who does not cheat.
2006-07-13 23:33:18 · answer #7 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you r pobably thinking he was the best guy in the universe. try other guys and u'll be amazed. he's not worth ur tears and sorrow if he actually cheated on u.
but if it was his first and he's really a good guy and he's sorry for doing that and u love each other, just hold on, u might learn to forgive him. love is strong.
2006-07-13 23:31:05 · answer #8 · answered by chiefbrino 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smile because you found out now and not after your married. It will hurt for abit, but you will find someone who loves you and wants only you...Good Luck
2006-07-13 23:29:17 · answer #9 · answered by Texas_at_its_best 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what i did when my boyf of 2 years cheated and left me! Eat choccie... Watch chick flicks and get all your tears and upset out... then when you've done that (maybe about a week or 2 of it) realise he was a d**kwad and he wasn't worth your time! no man is worth being unhappy =) hope you feel better soon
2006-07-13 23:31:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋