I feel good when i look at him......i want to keep on looking only at him.I find excuses for looking at him. I want to hear everything he speaks.I want to hear his voice all the time.I become restless if i dont see him for a day !! I love his attention.He's cute and handsome. After 2 months of liking him i told him about my feelings.[He doesnt Love me though :(( ]He's a very fun loving guy.
Do you think this is really LOVE or just attraction ??
2006-07-13 23:21:30 · 16 answers · asked by ♥ cute_n_lovely♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to me, that would be love. To others its a crush. To others its attraction. To others its close to love. What i suggest, believe what you believe. Dont go asking other people to find out what love is, if you feel you love someone, then you feel it. Cause Im telling you, so many people will tell you different things about this, some will bring you down, some will bring you up. So just believe what you believe. And if you think thats a whole load of crap then in my opinion its love :).
2006-07-13 23:25:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like young love AND strong attraction at the same time. Just because you're young doesn't mean that you're not just as able to fall in love as a fully mature adult. Sometimes a person loves someone who doesn't love them. That's just the way it happens sometimes. Keep in mind, though, that many people fall in love a couple of times before they ever even get married. Falling in love with someone doesn't automatically make them "The One". It's good to try to keep that in mind while you're learning about love at this age.
2006-07-14 00:02:20 · answer #2 · answered by Tea 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I separate the person from who they are, i.e. a body part, that person has an incredible bottom, or they are hot, I am separating the person from who they are to how they appear/look. I am also idealizing who they are based on the objectification of their body, i.e., because that person is hot, I would like to get to know them, or somehow they are appealing emotionally mentally because they are hot. As I am objectifying, lust shows itself in fantasy. What would I like, what would I like to do with and to them. So I would say when the idealized picture of this person is replaced with reality, IE., who they really are. You can accept and be willing to see past faults, issues, problems because Love carries no jealousy, love doesn't judge, love don't do anything for self gratitude, love gives unconditionally, love is trust, love is respect, love is truth!
2006-07-14 19:17:34 · answer #3 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm.. ok my sweet lil sister.. if i say no its just attraction would u listen to me?
n dont u think its alil too early ? i dont know much about ur western culture but one thing i know that having that kinda relationship in such an early stage of life is considered wrong in every part of the world.. plz dont take me wrong.. i just wanted to say that be very careful with ur life.. do what u wanna do.. make ur decisions but be careful with ur decisions.. this life cannot be reversed.. n everything u do has its effect on entire life.. so just be careful.. good luck.. :)
2006-07-13 23:30:39 · answer #4 · answered by razorguy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lt sounds like you are in Love with someone who is not in Love with you.That's usually the way Love is it's hard to find a real Love who will Love you in return, but keep trying.
2006-07-13 23:30:31 · answer #5 · answered by catsclaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahahaha.. sorry to say, kid - you're waaaaaaaay too young to even understand love, forget feeling it!!! love doesn't happen if only you feel it, love only happens when it's from BOTH sides.. so just remember, you're just attracted/infatuated. concentrate on school, and i'm sure someone who likes you too will come along!
2006-07-13 23:23:49 · answer #6 · answered by conspicuous 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My honest opinon, its lust. You will feel that threw life and right now your going threw it. Just give it time it will be over. Unless he is interested then show him how cool of a chick you are.
2006-07-13 23:26:59 · answer #7 · answered by Island Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it might be a hard crush, and you can't love someone that doesnt want a relationship with you.
2006-07-13 23:25:21 · answer #8 · answered by houtexknights330 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a crush... love is not something which happens at first sight, it gradually develops within you and your partner when u spend sometime together.
2006-07-13 23:59:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's infatuation, u'd probably grow out of it if someones else starts giving u attention
2006-07-13 23:25:27 · answer #10 · answered by chiefbrino 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋