Has EVERYBODY had sex before they're 17??? I swear I'm the only one in this universe.
2006-07-13 23:06:50 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks for all the answers but no I'm not desperate to sleep with someone, I'm waiting for when I get married. I just can't believe how many people who are younger than me have had sex already!
2006-07-14 02:12:29 · update #1
Keep it that way love, once you've done it there's no turning back. Stay a virgin for as long as you want, it's a great quality. Sex is only good when your body and mind are completely ready for it.
Be proud.....
2006-07-13 23:10:36 · answer #1 · answered by Lilac Lady 3 · 30⤊ 4⤋
No, a lot of people lie to try to make other people feel that they are inadequate. They also lie to make themselves look 'good'.
If someone says they are or are not a virgin, how do you know whether they are telling the truth? Even if you conducted a medical exam, it's likely to be inconclusive. They might have used large tampons, a vibrator, had a smear test or gone horse-riding. All activities which break the hymen without engaging in intercoruse with a man. Or alternatively, they might be a lesbian so they have had 'sex' but not penetrative intercourse as they ask in 'Chasing Amy' does that cause you to lose your virginity?
Many women are sensible enough to wait until they fall in love before they have sex for the first time. Many women under 17 are not mature enough to have full relationships and have only just begun to think about having a relationship.
So despite what people may say, they are probably lying. Don't worry about it.
2006-07-14 06:26:58 · answer #2 · answered by Fluorescent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it is much more common now to have sex at an earlier age. children are exposed to soo much more sex and adult themes nowadays that they cannot help but be curious most of the time.
both cities and small towns experience this. small towns because there may be a lack of ways to pass the time while your horomones are flying. and cities cause it may be the cool thing to do.
the few who wait tend to have strong family backgrounds are strict religeous laws. but this could easily be untrue for the fact that teens rebel almost like clockwork around this age.
i knew a girl that was 21 before she had sex and one who had sex by the age of 12 both small towns and good families...circumstance led to the different outcomes.
but you arent alone... china has a lot of girls that dont do anything until they are out of college.
2006-07-14 06:18:55 · answer #3 · answered by JCCamel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People may say they have had it before 17 but in reality the actual average age for losing your virginity in the UK is 17
2006-07-14 06:12:47 · answer #4 · answered by Malcolm M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the same. Atleast i did till recently, till i realised there's more to life than sex. I'm 18 and my friends 15, it's weird because she's the one giving me advice about men and sex. You obviously haven't found the right person yet, it'll happen when it happens. Just get on with your life, don't let it revolve around men/sex. Ask yourself, are you that desperate to sleep with someone? ;-)
2006-07-14 08:44:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was still 19 when i lost my virginity and that was like 1994! i think there'a a minority that belongs to the 19 year old virgin group. but don't be in a hurry! take your time! waiting for the right time and person is all worth the wait! you'll see!
2006-07-14 07:26:12 · answer #6 · answered by frustrated and desperate! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
17 year old virgins still exist...I should know, I am one. I'll never understand why some people think that's bad, maybe they're jealous because they lost it at a very young age with someone who didn't give a crap..
2006-07-14 06:15:12 · answer #7 · answered by stardust 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
l was still a virgin long after 17, l was in my 20's my first time. But still it wasn't worth it. Wait til you find real Love no matter how old you are it has to be real Love don't waste it.
2006-07-14 06:13:02 · answer #8 · answered by catsclaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, your not alone. Most people claim they have sex early but it doesn't make it true.
Wait until it is right for you, do not be pressured as you'll never have a First Time again.
2006-07-14 06:38:53 · answer #9 · answered by celene s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes they still exist, a bloke mate of mine was 19 when he lost his. I was just turned 16, I'm 25 now and love sex very much but that's just me. Each to their own I say.
2006-07-14 06:31:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 17, you keep it that way hun, untill your ready. Don't be pressured into something your not ready to do! Your different from the 'Stereotypical' 17 year old. Im proud of you!.
2006-07-14 07:42:00 · answer #11 · answered by Cliveus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋