So my boyfriend has been going to a lot of parties lately and being social which has given him a big confidence boost. The problem is he's afraid that what happened in his last relationship might happen with us..where he spent less time on making friends and more time with his gf. Even though i've given him his own space and I tell him he can do whatever he wants and that i would never put limits on him..he's still thinking that he might want his freedom and might want to be single for a while (since he didnt have much time to be single between his last relationship and this one). I've told him that i would be fine with whatever decision he makes..but the truth is that I love this guy and I enjoy his company and the feeling I get around him. I would never want to lose that..but i want him to be happy too..so should I try to convince him to stay with me or should we break things off? If we do break up, there's the chance that we may never get back together..and that's what scares me.
2006-07-13 22:55:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him how you feel and he might change his mind. Tell him that you love his company and that you dont want to lose it. And if he does decide to leave for his freedom, i know it will hurt you and he will be free. Just tell him that you would love it if you could still have his company, but still let him be himself. And just remember that there are plenty of others who can make you feel as special as he does.Im sure.
2006-07-13 23:02:31 · answer #1 · answered by Island Girl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't break up with him...relationships are in a state of constant change or flux. What is important is what you do with your time. If he loved skiing and you were always skiing...then he would go with you. IF he loves camping and you and your friends go camping...then he would go with you. See what I mean? He likes attention so don't expect him to do just couple things alone ...until he is more mature...don't give up on him. Why don't you have parties at your home...and offer excellent food and drink and then he would hang out at your house more. You need to become a relationship engineer to get what you want. Good luck
2006-07-14 06:00:34 · answer #2 · answered by toe poe gee gee oh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he wants to break from you because he has the confidence now and has seen loads of hot women to go on the rampage with. what a shame this has happened but i don't think he really wants to be with you anymore.sorry!
2006-07-14 05:59:56 · answer #3 · answered by stingub40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you show him this question?? Or at least talk to him honestly and say how you feel and what you want from him and for him - before it is too late and you regret it.
2006-07-14 06:01:35 · answer #4 · answered by Susie Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking 2 him about it and if he blows his top hes not worth it
u need sum1 u can trust
also try spendin more time with him 2 try 2 prevent this 4m happenin so often
2006-07-14 05:59:45 · answer #5 · answered by sparkynicci 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rebound love is hard at first, truth is set him free if he comes back he is true love if he does fly away he never was!
2006-07-14 05:59:57 · answer #6 · answered by sorrells316 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you star following the same
2006-07-14 05:59:14 · answer #7 · answered by sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,If he and you are to be together,well ,it will be,if either choose another,or is thinking of,well its probably best in the end....thinking is part of it....acting on impulses is another...any help?
2006-07-14 06:00:53 · answer #8 · answered by outback 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be more friendly and caring with your boyfriend. U try to understand what he is lookoing for in other g/fs. Try to please him with all his needs.Surely he will be with you.
2006-07-14 06:02:21 · answer #9 · answered by thinkpose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋