We broke up not too long ago, hes already with someone else but people has told me that hes not happy with her. I cry over him almost every night. I can tell that hes not over me but its like he doesnt want to admit it. Its really hard not to even think about him, everything i do makes me think of him? How can i get over him??
2006-07-13 22:10:13 · 12 answers · asked by *Chelsie* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well girl welcome to the world of heartbreak. well wished u wrote why u broke up but u guys ended so thats all that matters. the fact that he went and found someone means hes trying to move on. im sure u 2 have a good bond and all and thats hard to forget. the only thing u can do is just try to go out and have fun wether with friends or alone. it will take time girl but a heartbreak does subside eventually. im not telling u to go out and get with a guy but go have fun and meet people. this world is big and there many others out there. thats life u never know whats going to happen just be strong and go 4 it. might take time but in time u will be ok. good luck out there
2006-07-13 22:19:03 · answer #1 · answered by SLICK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, are you sure he's not over you? Sometimes in such situations, a person (in your position) will tell herself the ex is not happy, could not possibly be happy, without her (you). Secondly, examine why you aren't able to move on. What's keeping you tied to this person? Is it that you're not used to being alone anymore? Not used to not having anyone to care for, or fuss over? Jealous that he's now with someone else? Some painful honesty is required here. If its that you're not used to being alone, then get out with your friends. If its that you need someone to dote over, find a friend in need, or a young niece or a nephew, or elderly relative/friend. If its just plain old jealousy, the best way to deal with that is too remind yourself why you broke up in the first place. It had to be something pretty bad. If its none of these things, and you two truly belong together, swallow your pride, bite the bullet, and make that call. Otherwise, let it go.
2006-07-14 05:23:41 · answer #2 · answered by virgoascendant 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you want to get over him?? Maybe you should ask him out for coffee "as friends" or find some other way to tell him that you still have feelings for him. You know how guys are, they dont' want to seem weak. By taking a small risk and admitting to him how you feel, it allows him to tell you right back. Either way, what have you got to lose. Hang in there!! Good luck!!
2006-07-14 05:14:45 · answer #3 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
divert your thoughts away from those things.. keep yourself busy.... or try to take on a vacation to places you have never been to so by the time you come back you're refreshed and ready to take on another set of life's challenges.
good luck!
2006-07-14 05:58:05 · answer #4 · answered by crippledfaith88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bout 7 months ago i met this guy...... we started datin and i fall in love wit him... we dated for 3 months.... then we broke up and wasnt together for a month and it was really hard for me and i couldnt get over him then we got back together and was only together for a couple of days then he told me he didnt want a g/f and that when he told me he loved me the last time he didnt mean it and it hurt me so bad..... i cried everynite i wasnt myself anymore i thought i wasnt goin to beable to live witout him in my life and i started thinkin bout killin myself but i didnt/..... i started talkin to this other guy and he helped me get over him.... well i aint over him and never will be i still love him so much but i finally realized he didnt love me so theres was no use in tryin anymore and yea it hurt me and still does and when i think bout it i just wanna go lay down and cry cuz that seems the only thing possible for me to do.... he wouldnt go back pout wit me nothing but then i let him go...... i went out and partyed had a good time and found someone else to help me through it.... tho it is still hard to move on i know it wont happen...... sometimes you just got to let go and move on.... so go out and have fun find someone....... dont rush into things take it slow and you mite be surprised at wat you get..... look every sec of every day your cryin over him you cant get that back...... take each day as it is your last and love like you have never been hurt b4 cuz life is too short so live it the way you want to..... dont spent your days and nites cryin over this guy there is someone who would love to have someone like you in there life and they r lookin for you right now..... dont go out lookin for love let love find you......
2006-07-14 05:24:55 · answer #5 · answered by hesgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel and tell him you understand if he doesnt want 2 kno so if u kno wats going on in his head it'l help you 2 get over him xx tasha xx
2006-07-14 05:12:42 · answer #6 · answered by X-Wel$h--$wAn$ea--Chik-X 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well do u want to get over him CuZ if you did u would n if u haven't then u still have feelings for him and if he have feeling for you then talk to him n get threw his had that its okay to admit if he does...n get back together
2006-07-14 05:17:07 · answer #7 · answered by april 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep busy and remind yourself why you broke up. It will get easier in time.
2006-07-14 05:18:06 · answer #8 · answered by loveorlust06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why get over him keep on trying and pray God will lead you
2006-07-14 05:13:13 · answer #9 · answered by shiningon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEVER WILL IF YOU TRULY LOVE HIM.ITS BEEN A YEAR FOR ME AND I STILL CANT STOP THINKING OF HER,OR B WITH ANOTHER.
2006-07-14 05:17:10 · answer #10 · answered by IM MARRIED BUT I CHOSE TO CHEAT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋