my gf and I got into a little biff, she bought pie for everyone, but didn't tell me. I didn't like that kind, she yelled, freaking out about buying pie for herself. I Left, I laid down in bed, upset I got yelled at about "PIE"! I told her I was upset about being yelled at about pie, she started to get frustrated, raise her voice, I turned my game off, said I wasn't going to argue then left. Went back to the room a few min later, then she left, leaving the baby with me. I took the baby laid it beside her and left. She grabbed her things and went to lay on the couch. I asked her why she was angry, then she told me to guess! GUESS, what the hell is she angry about, cause I wouldn't argue, WHAT!?! some please help!
Before pregnancy comes to mind she just had her youngest in june and got her tubes tied. the baby is her ex's not mine, if she's pregnant again, someone please shoot ME!
2006-07-13 22:05:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-07-13 22:15:02 · update #1
you're in a bit of a mess, it could be that time of the month, or what you're already thinking. either way, fighting wouldn't help, be the bigger man and apologize for everything you did and didn't do.
The last thing you want to do is to get a logical explanatin from an emotional and angry woman! When you see her, admit your error while not saying what that error was (because you don't know) and ask her what you can do to make it up to her and maybe she'll open up to you and reveal the mystery behind the moodiness because it sure as hell wasn't the pie she was mad about!
Either way i wish you the best.
2006-07-13 22:12:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dude, be nice to her she cant help it Maybe life is changing for her she has a baby and you come along complaning about a pie that she bought for everyone~ She didnt care if you liked it or not suck it up and eat it. My hubby would never do that to me even if it broke him out in hives. Sometimes you have to let things go and think before you speak! She did it out of the good of her heart! Also Post Par Depression could becausing her mood swings as well very common from when she had her last child! Tc and thing before you speak! To all men not just you!
2006-07-13 22:13:53 · answer #2 · answered by brandi_23sc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that there are several issues that need handling. Firstly, she needs to communicate her thoughts clearly, so that you can KNOW what she is angry about; otherwise you have no idea and therefore cannot expect to fix anything. Secondly, you have a problem; the baby is in the middle of your desire to be in relationship with yr gf, and this needs to be sorted, if it is creating waves. Otherwise that baby is going into very unstable atmosphere; not good for baby! There are three people involved and this needs sorting out. Do you feel that you can sort this out: if not, I would advise you to go to a family relative you know well and can talk to; or a mediator who can help because they are NOT involved!
Either way, I am wishing you the best of luck, to handle a difficult situation! [Where there's a will: there's a way!!]
2006-07-13 22:14:12 · answer #3 · answered by Tash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG. Haha..thats like the time my two youngers sisters fought about toothpaste. It was the most ridiculous thing I ever heard/watched. Maybe you should try apologizing to your g/f. Maybe she's just upset about something else or feeling a little moody. And apologizing and trying to make it up to her will show that you aren't the bad guy. And btw, kudos to you for being w/a girl who has a baby..I dont' see that often.
2006-07-13 22:10:58 · answer #4 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im so sorry 4 u. but thats a silly thing to argue about. go to her, and apologize.
tell her
"Honey I'm really sorry we argued and I would like to just forget about it and leave it behind us. Please except my apology and know that I am sorry for acting dumb. I was wrong."
say those exact words, I'm absolutely serious it should help. I am sorry to tell you this but since it seems that guys can't figure it out on thier own:
IT ALWAYS HELPS A SITUATION WHEN THE GUY ADMITS HE DID SOMETHING WRONG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
even if he doesn't know what he did wrong he pretty much always did do something wrong.
oh . . . and . . . 3 little letters . . . . PMS. get used to it at the end of every month. We all get it. so get used to it.
2006-07-13 22:19:10 · answer #5 · answered by Jill_luvs_puppies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The baby isnt mine either, But sure pal, U need to be shot, But bullets are costly these days and i wont wanna waste them on you, Take some rat poison and make it strong,
2006-07-13 22:11:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ladies dont usually tell you whats wrong. Crack your brain and ask yourself what you did to make her angry. Its not about the PIE!!!
2006-07-13 22:12:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got in an arguement about pie??? That's the dumbest thing i ever heard!!
2006-07-13 22:08:14 · answer #8 · answered by japjongetje 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever hear about post partum depression?
2006-07-13 22:09:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now I'm feeling sorry for that poor kid. you probably wouldn't understand and that in itself is sad.
2006-07-13 22:12:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋