2006-07-13 21:51:58 · 29 answers · asked by worla c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Anger and murder are not a part of love. What made you think it was love? Love and hate are opposites. You somehow have interchanged them. Anger, hate, and murder are the fruit of an evil tree that does not regard another's persons life.
John 15:13 says, "Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends". This describes real and true love. If you have not experienced real love, pray that God will put it in your heart. "God is Love".
2006-07-13 22:04:25 · answer #1 · answered by lindakflowers 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, here are a few pointers for you:
Start a sentence with a capital letter
The word is "love" not "luv"
The word is "that" not "dat"
The word is "you" not "u"
...and "doing away that person" means what? Killing them?
I think some of you out there would have fewer relationship and personal issues if you learnt how to communicate in some other language apart from this quasi-Jamaican / text talk illiterate lingo!!
In answer to your question, no, it is not normal. Get some help and quickly!!!
2006-07-13 22:00:42 · answer #2 · answered by Colin S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not alone. Many people have that but it isn't a good thing. You don't want to be abusive to that person do you? Because that would hurt them and you wouldn't want to hurt the people you love. I tell you what will help though, start kick boxing or buy a punch bag, if you wear yourself out and release all of that anger you'll feel much better. It could be you are angry about something else and your mind is directing at the person you love most. It does happen.
2006-07-13 21:57:05 · answer #3 · answered by Daisy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I wish you desclosed your age.That hapens in teenage age. As we grow we tend to have some pictures of who we should love when we grow up.But when you hapen to find someone in life who loves you and looks so great to you, you feel you are on cross roads and can't find the real answer to wether you have found the real love or something on your way to true love.Please take your time and don't rush because you don't know who God will give you in life.She might be just the right one.
2006-07-13 23:43:38 · answer #4 · answered by MWAD INTERNATIONAL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, the strongest feeling you have is anger and because you cant express the intensity of your love in words you resort to the strongest emotion you have, anger. But i wouldn't try the whole doing away with your partner cause i don't think the courts accept that as a valid reason for murder!!!
2006-07-13 22:57:20 · answer #5 · answered by disney princess whore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what they've done.
One guy hurt me so much I kicked down his door, gave him a bump on his head a black eye. He then wound me up a bit further and my friend had to ease the brick out of my hand that I was going to smash his head with.
And I'm usually a quiet, mild mannered person!! Don't even like smacking my kids or swear!!
2006-07-13 22:24:05 · answer #6 · answered by Sweetcakes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not normal to want to do away with the person you love.
It seems you have a deep love of someone, and you fear being hurt. That is the only motive I can see to want to do away with the person. You have to confront this fear. Humans are unpredictable, but if this person loives you as much as you love him/her, then your fear should reduce drastically.
All the best.
2006-07-13 22:14:00 · answer #7 · answered by SmartAlec 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happens but don't run away from whats makeing you mad communicate with them put your arms around them and let them know your fears and feelings if you get a chance to really be in love run the distamce with it climb the rainbows and conquer problems together cuz you know your partner is proably feeling the same things just handling them different remember communicate it helps
2006-07-13 22:09:34 · answer #8 · answered by shiningon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, sounds like you need to start loving yourself and having your partner return your love! Chill out and make sure you are meeting your own needs first and foremost then you will be relaxed and be able to give your love freely to them without feeling so angry
2006-07-13 21:55:10 · answer #9 · answered by Sasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a shrink right now, or phone your doctor and get help. Not even funny to joke on the subject. Even that needs a trip to the doctor.
2006-07-13 21:55:21 · answer #10 · answered by thecharleslloyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋