me and my girl were trying different things a while back, i went down on her, and i was nastier than....''poop''....yes i had the right hole, but she loved it the whole 7 seconds i was down there. she wants me to do it again, i dont want to, how do i tell her?
2006-07-13 21:39:01 · 8 answers · asked by Press 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why didn't you like it? Was the smell/taste bad? Were you just uncomfortable with the idea? If its the smell or taste... I had a girlfriend who didn't use any kind of smell good girl stuff, no perfume, no scented shampoo/soap, and (though she was healthy) smelled a little strange down there. I LOVE going down on a girl so I invited her to a little experiment without telling her that her scent was strange. I cut up some fruit and placed it all over her body and ate it off, spending a little more time in certain areas. We both had a great time. If you just don't like going down on her...man you got to tell her cause she might really like it and wants someone that will share that with her. Enjoy pleasing her. If you really don't want to do it make sure that you tell her it's your hangup and it's got nothing to do with her. (even if it does)Good luck.
2006-07-13 21:53:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
you and your GF will have to come to common ground on this one-- i think if you explain to her that this is not your cup of tea (that you really don't like doing that) but you will try for her then that will open the door for further discussions, and that may lead to what are some of the things she can do to help make it easier for you to do that for her and there are things like
1 shaving/waxing
2washing before
3 not eating certain foods like garlic the day befor
4 knowing her body so that at certain times of the month her hormones may be higher or lower which may cause her scent to be stronger
things like that
i hope this helps
2006-07-14 04:54:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she stinks down their maybe their is something wrong that she is not recognizing i mean you both are young I'm assuming and if she is having sex she need to be seeing a doctor once a year fore check ups she may have some kind of infection like a yeast infection and or a bacterial infection. you should tell her your feelings and let her decide and if you don't like to do something you should talk with your partner and suggest some other things to do it all about respect RESPECT yourself and RESPECT your partner
Have fun and good luck
2006-07-14 04:51:45 · answer #3 · answered by kathy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth, because that's what matters in a relationship. Just tell her that you're not ready for that sort of stuff, or you don't feel comfortable with doing that yet. She'll understand, as long as you're honest.
2006-07-14 04:46:12 · answer #4 · answered by Jimmy C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can tell her...and risk really really hurting her feelings. Or you can suggest that you take a shower w/her before you get busy. That way, you know she's sqeaky clean. Have fun.
2006-07-14 04:46:56 · answer #5 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better learn to like it!...Put her in the shower just before and tellher to scrub that thing out with some drain'o... you be just fine .....
2006-07-14 04:43:53 · answer #6 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do whatever she wants.
That's the secret to a great relationship with a woman.
2006-07-14 04:43:19 · answer #7 · answered by junglejoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WTF?
2006-07-14 04:43:08 · answer #8 · answered by DaNewGuy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋