2006-07-13 21:37:44 · 32 answers · asked by onie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
i understand why people wait until after but i personally believe it's important to do it before. not everyone has sexual chemistry so if you wait until after marriage to have sex together and it ends up sucking (even if you guys have the best romantic and emotional chemistry in the world) then thats awful.
you need to know beforehand that you can make a sexlife work once you have married each other and are going to be committed to each other for the rest of your lives.
sex is a huuuuge part of relationships.
oh also, i hate when people say "your first time needs to be special and with someone you arent gonna regret"
ya...its really not THAT big a deal.
but i do understand the whole religious reason for waiting.
2006-07-13 21:41:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
B 4
2006-07-13 21:39:13 · answer #2 · answered by The Whopper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely after marriage
2006-07-13 21:41:08 · answer #3 · answered by its_anoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The traditional thing to do is to have sex after marriage, but people nowadays just have sex all the time.
I think you should just wait till after marriage so that there are no regrets and it will be with someone more special, and it will also mean more if you do wait. Just have patience.
2006-07-13 21:41:02 · answer #4 · answered by Jimmy C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex after marriage or before marriage is not important. Most important is you must be responsible of what you do and face the consequences. Never to forget everything "after the "joy and fun".
2006-07-14 01:49:14 · answer #5 · answered by James Louis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why wait until after marriage to enjoy sex. It should be enjoyed yesterday, today, tomorrow, everyday, before and after marriage. With the same partner you love of course.
2006-07-13 21:41:57 · answer #6 · answered by ES 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't matter. After or Before as long as you know that nothing's holding you back. If anything weighs down your conscience then back off. Let your heart guide you. Then you'll find the answer.
Many people have different opinions. I'm doing it before marriage. Sometimes I regret, sometimes I smile.
Just make sure that you don't hurt anyone and of all, yourself.
2006-07-13 21:47:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adam and Eve were sent out of the paradise because they had sex first before they were blessed by God. Sex is really the forbidden fruit.
That means sex after marriage is better. thats the way it should be.
2006-07-13 21:44:51 · answer #8 · answered by arthurmljr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex before during and after marriage is most advisable, especially if it isnt my marriage.
2006-07-13 22:13:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The word "prefer" is defined: "To choose or be in the habit of choosing as more desirable or as having more value."
Therefore we must ask, what has more value? After or Before? Perhaps our choice is determinate of our person and therefore, personal values. If I am a fool, I will throw a diamond to the wind and say, "be gone", thou worthless stone! The fool lacks understanding and is a fool because he is a fool.
If I am a wise person, I will study the stone, it's sparkle, it's radiance, it's worth, it's value and I will say, "ah, a diamond. I shall guard it with my life! I shall save it for it's highest worth. Hast not wisdom chosen best?
2006-07-13 21:49:11 · answer #10 · answered by lindakflowers 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋