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but I did it because I dont want to have a relationship with his/her! I felt guilt!

2006-07-13 21:21:42 · 9 answers · asked by rhed B 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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sometimes it is better to ignore someone because if you say something to them you might really hurt their feelings

2006-07-13 21:24:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Crap, crap, crap. I'm going through something like this at the moment--and not just owning up and telling that other person, "Look, I don't want that with you, I like you but not that much" is BULLS&^%! Look, if you are an adult, then act like one and tell the other person you are not interested in them that way. So what if it might hurt their feelings? Which do you think is better, having it out in the sunlight or always wondering what it was that drove that other person away? Wouldn't you like to be told the truth, even if it meant feeling a little low for a day, so you could move on with your life and look for some other chickadee? Or would you rather always wonder what happened to that other person, was your breath bad or did you stink? Did you say something offensive? Just put yourself in their shoes, and go ahead and tell that person so you don't have to worry about avoiding them. If they are adult about it, you have nothing to worry about. If they're not, screw 'em anyway--you gotta live for you. But you can be forthright with other people in the process.

2006-07-14 04:36:56 · answer #2 · answered by Princess Toadstoolie 3 · 0 0

Don't worry about it. You did what you felt was right. There is no need to feel guilty about not sharing the feelings that someone has for you. Maybe if you still feel guilty you can contact this person and let them down easy.

2006-07-14 04:27:24 · answer #3 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0 0

You must too. be honest and saythat you dont think at him like that not ignoring that bad all he/her did is be honest with you and tell about the feeling she/he have for you.and that mean that you cant face the situation in your life and make you an ***

2006-07-14 04:29:28 · answer #4 · answered by shadow 2 · 0 0

you don't owe anyone anything.

BUT because you feel guilty, you know it was the wrong thing to do. if someone feels good enough about you to tell you such emotional things, it is the least you can do to give that person an honest answer right away.

2006-07-14 04:24:34 · answer #5 · answered by tami 4 · 0 0

but always straight line is the shortest distance between 2 points
u should explain or apologize. better than ignore

2006-07-14 04:38:48 · answer #6 · answered by abdo 2 · 0 0

i think that because you don't communicate well you ar etaking out out on her, Instead you need to ask some one with better communication skills other than yourself, How to break news to some one because you feel guilty and it would hurt the other persons feelings.

2006-07-14 04:25:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If ignoring happened involuntarily, then be sympathetic but if you deliberately ignored him/her then tell him/her on his/her face that your likes are different from what he/she has.

2006-07-14 04:30:16 · answer #8 · answered by Gr8 Gy 2 · 0 0

Be honest with them and tell them how you really feel.

2006-07-14 04:25:01 · answer #9 · answered by nativeamericantay 3 · 0 0

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