ever since i broke up with my ex, i still can't find a decent one. it has been 4 yrs!!!!
2006-07-13 21:11:40 · 10 answers · asked by manjeff 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
were you benchmarking your potential girlfriend with your ex? if you had been trying too hard in this aspect, it is time for you to let go and move on.
2006-07-13 21:13:34 · answer #1 · answered by chio'z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish these females would stop giving you advice as if you are a girl.
"do you compare her to your ex... etc etc"
Just like we dont write cute little notes every day and stuff like that or gather our guy friends together for a good cry session to get over a girl.
Anyway, I know what you are going through:
Either your dating pool in your area is small, i mean those that are compatible (education, ethnicity, age......etc) and clubs aren't the answer
Or
You have some anger tucked away inside you, maybe you got burnt or are bitter or disappointed in the previous gf, and that is subconsciously interfering in your words, actions and/or confidence. You may be cynical.
Just think about it
Email me if you like, let me know what u think.
2006-07-13 21:37:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When u meet a girl don't compare her with ur ex the first chance u get. Get 2 know her b4 making any assumptions, u never know u could end up liking her even more.
2006-07-13 21:17:09 · answer #3 · answered by Bella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's cuz ur lookin for a girl just like ur ex and ur realizing that none of them are just like her...you need to get over ur ex first and sort out those feelings before moving on.
2006-07-13 21:17:01 · answer #4 · answered by c@ramel_m@mi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your attitude. Get thee to Leykis 101.
2006-07-13 21:14:42 · answer #5 · answered by Jolly1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the trick is... don't try too hard! let a girl come to you and not the other way round. don't find love. let love find you! it'll be less of a hassle. trust me! =)
2006-07-14 16:05:36 · answer #6 · answered by anak sendu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
open your mind a little. you might find someone u never expected and hit it off.
2006-07-14 00:49:04 · answer #7 · answered by jantwo11 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be glad man! you can date all the girls you want, without having to commit to anyone of them!
2006-07-13 21:52:05 · answer #8 · answered by Manix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 years how do you live man... haha
2006-07-13 21:15:09 · answer #9 · answered by i ask questions alot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do like anyone now? try to talk and see how girls feel about u!
2006-07-13 21:14:47 · answer #10 · answered by vantha_nou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋