Do you people think that..it's true?
2006-07-13 20:15:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love and hate are same sides of the coin. usually u get feelings of love and hate for the same person ( whom you love )
the person when he hurts you is not really hurting you.He is just ventilating out his frustrations on to you, because you are his only vent. if you look from this angle you will realize that he is just dependent on you.instead of getting hurt u should feel sorry for him,its not he but his frustration that's speaking and you wont take it to heart .
sometimes hurting is just a way of communication which a couple learns when they don't get positive attention.
perhaps you too are very sensitive ,specially to criticism. learn to overcome this and you ll have a wonderful relationship with him.
2006-07-13 20:24:40 · answer #1 · answered by naresh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Someday when you are all old like me; you will discover that life is too damn short and there are far better feelings and emotions to spend your energy on than, Hate!
If someone does you wrong,then you should use the experience to learn and to grow from. It just simply wasn't meant to be. So you go on and you find another Prince Charming waiting right around the very next bend in the road of life. So let it go and you'll be a much happier and healthier person for doing so.
2006-07-13 20:30:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is true.
Cuz all your heart and life is revolving around the person. U got too dependent on the person to give U happiness. When the person fails what U think the person should do, U begiin to feel disappointed. So as time goes by, hate comes in!
2006-07-13 20:22:46 · answer #3 · answered by Lucky♣Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
convinced, i'd hate the guy I actually loved...the rationalization I say that is cuz i received a telephone call from a woman named jennifer. nicely it yet so takes position that the guy i were with for previous 3 years became in touch with jennifer and seems to that they'll have a touch one. with that each and every one reported in simple terms made me hate the f*** out of him! In different words i favor i not in any respect met cris aguirre!
2016-10-14 11:04:41 · answer #4 · answered by tegtmeier 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love & hate are the two sides of the same coin. In any relationship, where there is love there is bound to be some hatered. You tend to hate only those whom you love.
2006-07-13 20:18:58 · answer #5 · answered by sharma.kulbhushan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are absolutely right.
This problem has a root in our ever increasing expectations from the person we love and trust.
2006-07-13 20:19:05 · answer #6 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES IT IS BECAUSE YOU NEVER EXPECT THE PERSON THAT YOU LOVE TO HURT YOU SO THIS LOVE GRADUALLY TURNS TO HATE
2006-07-13 20:19:12 · answer #7 · answered by <<SEXY MOMMA>> 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u can sort out the problem it is not so, but otherwise just let it go,move on to next person
2006-07-13 20:18:36 · answer #8 · answered by imran a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I do,
My GF broke up with me and I initially thought it was the worst thing that happened to me, but I'm slowly and I mean slowly comming to terms with my loss and yes it deffinetly hurt.
but we're still mates, so if theres anything positive-thats it.
2006-07-13 20:21:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no the easier it is to forgive even though it hurts more
2006-07-13 20:17:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋