I got to know a guy 3 months back, we often talk to each other through phone, weekend outings or even meet up for lunch during the weekdays. So far we have been good of friends. We seems to get along very well in all expects. I think i m falling in love with him but not sure if i should coz i am not sure if he is. How can i find out whether he loves me or not?
2006-07-13 20:14:41 · 3 answers · asked by gldsp 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dnt dare to tell him that i have a crush on him coz of a few factors.
1. He has done his masters and he wants to marry a girl who is well educated not just any secondary or poly girl.
2. He prefers a girl whose very sporty and good looking, the thing is i m much darker looking then him and not very sporty sort.
So these 2 are my negative points which stops me from telling him that i have a crush on him.
2006-07-13 20:27:49 · update #1
Tell him you got a crush on him. You'll feel better and ask him how he feels about you.
2006-07-13 20:18:03 · answer #1 · answered by if i only knew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop the guy some hints that you have a crush on him. He may have his expectation but that should not be the factor to let you hold back on giving him the hints.
If he just takes you as a friend, you can just move on with your life and find someone more suitable for you.
2006-07-14 04:51:11 · answer #2 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with the two earlier answers..but with a modification. be confident about yourself, and approach him directly, saying: "you know what, i like you. So, where is this relationship heading to?"
if he's a confident man himself, he will take this is as a challenge. assess his personality.
2006-07-14 05:11:38 · answer #3 · answered by Manix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋