i ask the other night about my highschool sweety. well tonight i went to see him at work itold him i need to talk and he said he would call after work but his girl was on his *** so he couldnt call. should i be blunt and ask if i have a chance? he says he's not happy cuz ahe wont let him out by hisself with friends but he gets REAL happy to see me everytime.he said on the phone that he willget in touch with me. i told i really need to talk to him. can someone help me please!!!!!
2006-07-13 19:41:13 · 8 answers · asked by mom 3 times 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he isnt the type to cheat thats why he hasnt come to my house. i know im better for him. im only 2yrs younger not 15.i cant help it i still love him. she doesnt let him do anything but work. how can i show him im not like that . that i would trus him. hes not a cheater, i know this for a fact.
2006-07-13 19:51:10 · update #1
the question you need to ask your self why would you want to
get involved with someone that has a girlfriend. you need to
find someone that totally has your heart not someone else.
regardless of what going on his situation with her.
2006-07-13 19:50:40 · answer #1 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Confront him and tell him how you feel the next time you see him. Explain how his girlfriend treats him is f*cked up and that he deserves better. But prep yourself if he comes to her defense, then he might not listen to you 'cuz he could be "whupped" and say he might love her. Although you see that you could make him happier being w/you, you have to realize that any girl involved w/a guy you want won't stand for that sh*t. I know I wouldn't, so I would be a little guarded w/that situation. But then again, she treats him like crap and doesn't have the right to hold anyone back from doing what they do since she OBVIOUSLY doesn't trust him. You make the call and good luck.
2006-07-14 02:51:00 · answer #2 · answered by elisa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is going to cheat on her with you or leave her for you.... history has proven that he will do it again.
Just be there as a friend for him and talk on occasion about life in general. If he breaks up with her and you two did nothing and you were there as a friend, its all gravy.
If you two mess around while he has not seperated with her, dont be surprised if he plays both of you and goes back to her or leaves the both of you.
2006-07-14 02:52:56 · answer #3 · answered by Charles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no let him go thats a mess you dont want to be a part of plus if hes trying to hook up with you on the side she may have very good reason to be the way she is
2006-07-14 02:46:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on, your only going to get hurt. hes just trying to get a peace of *** on the side. Thats why he is to busy to call or go out.
2006-07-14 02:45:30 · answer #5 · answered by Crystal D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
on most relationships, you have to risk things to get the ones that you want.
2006-07-14 02:46:27 · answer #6 · answered by blurp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you would be better for him than the b*tch.
2006-07-14 02:45:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open up more and risk more of yourself to him.
2006-07-14 02:43:38 · answer #8 · answered by eugene65ca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋