I am trying to win my boyfriend back...so far with very little success. He doesn't return my calls or answer my emails. Am I a hopeless romantic just hoping that in time he will see how much he means to me? Or am I just being a fool?
2006-07-13 19:35:19 · 21 answers · asked by mandydc3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a)just being a sraight up FOOL
b} a hopeless romantic
DING!!!!!! DING!!!! DING!!!!!
a} IS THE WINNER you are just being a fool
you are being stupid as hell you need to move on!GET A LIFE!!!!
STOP CALLING HIM IT IS HIS JOB TO CALL YOU DON'T CALL HIM N~E MORE!! STOP NOW !!!!IGNORE HIM LIKE HE IS IGNORING YOU. I KNOW THIS IS NOT WHAT YOU WANNA HEAR BUT HONEY YOU MIGHT WANT YOUR BOYFRIEND BACK BUT IT DOESEN'T SOUND LIKE HE WANTS YOU BACK SO YOU GOTTA MOVE ON HE OBVIOUSLY DOESN'T DESERVE YOU!
JusT kEepIN iT reAL
2006-07-13 19:54:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may mean more to you now that you cannot have him. Its the essential human condition, we want what we cannot have. So, take a needed break and get your thougths together. There is a reason why you broke up in the first place. If he feels about you the way you feel about him, it will happen and you will reconnect. A few days can make all the difference. One day you wake up and you realize how much time you spent wasting asking the question "should I stay or should I go"? Might as well use that time for yourself.
2006-07-13 19:48:22 · answer #2 · answered by TRINAD76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, what caused this "breakup"? Is he even worth wanting back? Would he be happier with you? If you care for him as much as you think you do, then just let go, give him his space, and if he decides he'd rather be with you, he'll let you know.
Also, by giving him this space, you're not feeding his ego, so to speak. He may be just waiting and wondering just how "desperate" you are for him. And in the end, if that is the case, he's just going to use you anyway.
The best piece of advice I can give you is to call up your girlfriends, have a girl's night out, get involved in some extra activities so you don't have the time to think about him, and before you know it, he'll either be at your doorstep or you'll be over him.
Good luck and lots of hugs!!
2006-07-13 19:44:28 · answer #3 · answered by L S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey now, guys need a break. If you keep hammering away at the phone, he'll not want to get back with you. Give the guy some space. After a few days, or a week, get some tickets to a movie he likes, drop it off at his place, somewhere he'll get it and it won't get stolen, and write on the inside, 'I've had a lot of fun with you. I'm sorry for _____. Wanna catch a flick?' actually.. that would work for me.. but.. everyone is different.
2006-07-13 19:43:57 · answer #4 · answered by Grant S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you're a little bit of both. a fool and a hopeless romantic. you're a love fool! i don't blame you, though. i'm sort of in your situation. but i'm not trying to win my ex back. i'm just still in love with him. it's been months since we broke up but i still have the feeling. i'm not sure if he still loves me or not but... he (using other words, of course) says he misses me and still cares about me. we still talk on the phone after all this time. sigh. sometimes i feel like a blasting idiot for letting this feeling go on. i don't know. do what you like. if you really like this man, go get him back. just don't look too desperate. and, if it doesn't work, perhaps it is the time to move on with your life. i wish all the luck to you.
2006-07-13 19:45:23 · answer #5 · answered by anak sendu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are emotionally hurt, that's why you don't accept the end between two of you. Remember the reasons you two finished the relationship. Don't be a fool, be strong. Go out and meet new people, have fun and show everybody you enjoy your life.
2006-07-13 19:42:42 · answer #6 · answered by nelli 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be blunt, you're a fool. If he's ignoring you, he doesn't want you back, stop wasting your time trying to get someone who doesn't want you. find a guy that actually wnats to be with you, you're just chasing after nothing. He doesn't care how much he may mean to you, or else he would of spoken to you. Move on, life's too short to waste your emotion & time on someone who's not having it.
2006-07-13 19:40:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cmon no need to jus give in ur self respect 4 a guy who doesnt even care nemore. y shud u b behind him if he is not interested. he is jus enjoying himself as hes getting da much needed attention 4m ur side.take a break n get far from him. meet new pple but dont jump into a relationship. give urself time to get over him. its hard but u need to move on. ul surely find sum1 worthy of ur true love.
hes a loser ul say this not today but sumday n jus remember me at dat time. good luck!!!!
2006-07-13 19:51:16 · answer #8 · answered by jess_16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am going threw the samething with my girl... just give her some space and he'll miss you and want to come back.. don't call him anymore. make him call you if you don't hear from in a week call him. and just ask whats up don't mention anything about the relationship. just talk like friends and then it will come back. promise
2006-07-13 19:38:27 · answer #9 · answered by j_barnes155 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him be. Move on. You can be romantic with someone who wants to be romantic with you. Don't waste your time on the guy.
2006-07-13 19:39:04 · answer #10 · answered by will 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋