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Question

how do i make my gf feel secure.and its a long distance relationship.

Answer 1

make sure you talk to her everyday! i like talking to my bf when i wake up and right before i go to sleep... make her feel like you care and are there for her... chat with her online if you can too... just stay in contact with her lots... and maybe you two can visit each other once in a while... and the time that you do have together, enjoy it and show her how much you care...

Answer 2

Just make sure the lines of communication are always open. Don't feel bad when you are busy or if she is busy, just let her no that you love her and would never compromise that in your relationship. Try to visit often too if you can, hopefully its not more than 4-6 hours between you two.

Answer 3

you can't
that distance is the key in both of you being paranoid
sooner or later one of you will meet someone local
and then loose interest in the long distance relationship

Answer 4

there are many things you can do and most is ongoing honestly what you do everyday..

Ok, firstly, you did not mention how do you communicate, however as so many other couples communicate via Internet, I will make this assumption you do to.

1. Look ate a BIG picture. What do other cuples do when they close by? Some ladies are secure and others are not. Find a commont interest that you can share.. common hobby. You can do it on both sides of the world however talk about it and SHARE it together. Like judo.. like scuba diving.. (that is fun, as you can PLAN future 'get togethers' and have fun..that also brings people together.. I am a Scuber Diver, it is great) learn new languge as French (the lovers toung) and say this to each other.. write frazes..

2. When you write or talk with her, tak about future plans and you MUST often use word "US", 'WE".. to bring hpe for future. Any relationship needs it close and far.

3. Talk often and share daily experiences. Many celebrity cuples broke up due to long disctance and being too busy. Schedule time for HER.

4. Other idea.. watch movies together/or eat pizza together. Rent movie and watch the same time (preferably as you 'chating on the net or chat after words). Once again, the same experience to share.

5. Set up a goal together, like in 2008 you will do something TOGETHER.. go and work part time or save some money, even set up one account together for that reason (this is possible those days) so also the trust is being build on it.

6. Fowers and cards are great.. but to send flowers cost so much so I would only stick with birthdays etc.. cards are better.. but you know what?? Make your own card, make your own painting, make her a ring from something.. you do it. as you put extra love it it..

7. Dont overdo saying 'I love You". Yes, this is great, but if you use it too often it will loose its true meaning. Say when the time is right!! Not everyday, as she will treasure it and not take you as big mouth.

8. When you promise something: DO it.

9. If you arrange to 'meet', never be late!! in fact be 5 minutes early and wait. Dont get cross and advise here that you waited for her..

10. Talk about your families and say things like "If my Mum meets you she will really like you"

11. rather stay away from topics such as: "I went out last night with this beautiful lady friend.. we had such fun". Rather say, I went out last night with few friends and I really wished so much you were there.. it was such fun and I wihs I could have shared this times with you, but let me tell you what we did". so what I mean, BE HONEST, but not to honest to the bone: there are many ways to skin the cat.

12. meet via video on internet.. but at the end you will need to meet to touch..

13. But perfume, in fact two bottles (some nice one, ask here what perfumes does she use to knwo what she likes). Then send her one bottle, so when you talk you can spray her perfume.. and you can ask her if she is waring it.. then sprey a bit around you then say, "you feel her".. tell here why..

14. Buy her a nice peace of clothing

15. never be jelous only supportive and understanding, and learn to understand what she says and what she needs. Many men lack that.

16. Make a song for her (sing) or is you feel shy then choose a CD together (have your onw song) and put it on as you on the net. And then tell her some song when played always remind you of her.

17. Dress simila: I mean eg from the same shops, etc.. you find cuples who dress similar are very close and secure

18. If you can make an effort that you call here everynight even for few seconds, just to say "love you, miss you and have beautifull night" .. is this not nice way to go to sleep? Make that time.

19. She needs to feel that you contributing something to your life, you take away so of here weight.. however, she wants to know she does the same for you... make her feel needed..

20 and the MOST NB: treat her as no other..

hope it helped..

Best regards
Desert

ps. we have our 5 senses:
*** test (you can cover this one)
*** smell (you can cover this one)
*** vision (you can cover this one)
*** hear (you can cover this one)
*** feel/touch (must work on it.. ask her to send you small peace of clothing... to 'feel' her)

The 6th sense: you can work on it: get close together mentaly...

Answer 5

Every thing you did to get her to become your girl friend keep doing it.

Answer 6

stay in constant contact-call and e-mail everyday

Answer 7

talk to her as much as possible and say sweet things.

Answer 8

Keep telling her you love her.

Answer 9

move close to her

Answer 10

send her ecards,call her, say ilove u more often.....