best way to ask a girl out?

Question

i realy like this girl and i think she likes me back, i wanna ask her out but whenever i say "would u like to go ____________ with me" she always says "u mean like a date???" and i always say no... plz help me... am i just a man with no balls??? or is it normal?

ok ty all and i will try to ask her tomorrow thanks... and if she says yes than 10 points!

Answer 1

So you've attempted to ask her out more than once and you both keep repeating the same behavior? (interesting)

Here's what you should do. Approach her when she's alone and ask her if you could talk to her for a few minutes. This lets her know you have an important question and she isn't caught off guard. When the two of you are alone, say, "I know we've been through this a few times before, but I would like to know whether you would to ___ with me. Whether you want to call it "date" is up to you, but I would really like to go with you and I think you might like it."

Good luck!

Answer 2

You should say yes...I think she is confused when you say no...as I am, too? Just say what you feel and never, ever play games in relationships even at the beginning. Just be to the point, polite, smile and look her in the eyes. Everyone likes to know right where they stand.

Answer 3

Normal. Stop stressing and realize ALL kids go through this... Male and female! Just ask dude! She is just as nervous as you are! Knowing is much better than wondering. And the word "no", Is not the end of something, It's the beginning of something else.

Answer 4

I guess it is normal to be a man with no balls. Now, get some balls and tell her "Yes, like a date".

Answer 5

dinner with me. Then when she says "u mean like a date" you say YES. And if she blows you off then there you have it. She probably just wants to hear it from your mouth that you want to date her dude. So, don't say no bro. Oh yeah, getcha a pair also. HAHA!! I wish I could date again!! Boy, those were the dayz my brotha!!!

Answer 6

First of all Yes you have no balls.Second i dont have any either when it comes to asking girls out.But you know life is so short dont let her slip away.Just come out and tell her the truth.Tell her i have two days to live,im a virgin and i want to spend the last couple of days of my life getting to know you better.Take it easy relax,dating is fun,have fun with it."Hey do you think you might want to go out sometime,get something to eat."Or whatever.Just nothing to intimate that might scare her off.Get a feal for her you will know if she wants to go further with it.Just make her comfortable.Good luck

Answer 7

just say yes its a date and smile. relax man, its normal to be a little shy, chances are she's probibly a little disapointed that you said no not a date. when the time is right it will happen

Answer 8

just tell her you learned how to speak african bush talk

and she said oh yea can I hear some so you ask her

" do-you-bango " bush talk tranlation do you bang?" just that easy
and then she kicks you in the crown geulls and walks away

but no you be on your best behavor and ask her for a date to a movie and so not push any sex moves on her unless she and ou click. but a big no no in front of her parents or yours

Answer 9

Just say "would you like to get together for coffee sometime". i've got a 100% hit rate with that one.

Answer 10

just be cool. If youre comfortable in any situation, she will be calm, and cool and more accepting. Dont show youre nervous. That makes girls nervous, and less open. hope this helps.