wat would be your reaction.
2006-07-13 19:03:06 · 16 answers · asked by rohit_110063 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Spell check its a godsend, aside from that, What can you really do? The parents should have maybe locked the door that's always a start. Everyone has sex its a natural part of life.
2006-07-13 19:08:55 · answer #1 · answered by sunniej1977 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never intend to have children, but if I did I would tell them to give me some goddamned privacy.
When it was all over with I would ask the kid what the hell they wanted and ignore the fact that they saw anything.
Teenagers already know about sex whether they're doing it themselves or not- they're taught about sex and anatomy during junior high. Unless your teenager is a ******* moron the kid doesn't need an explanation and should have the damned sense to apologize for interrupting.
If this has happened to anyone already and your teenager reacted by asking a bunch of questions I would respond in kind with questions like:
What the hell were you doing in school when they were teaching you about this stuff?
Why weren't you paying attention?
Why is it that you didn't have the sense to ask your teacher these questions during or after class when the subject was being taught?
After this would follow an absolute tirade against the school teacher for not doing his/her job. What the hell are you sending your kids to school for if they're not learning anything?
There is absolutely no reason for a teenager to be asking the same questions as my six year old brother.
If the subject of concern is the teenager acting strange and giggling like an idiot or saying things like "gross" and other such nonsense along those lines you should be screaming at them- a teenager doesn't have to act like an adult but they should at least act their age. Tell the kid to show some damned maturity.
2006-07-14 02:20:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, you did not indicate if the sex partner was legitimate or not. That will most likely determine what you will have to say to him/her.
However, whatever you say will make a great impact on their lives where sex is concerned so choose your words and attitude carefully because they will be observed by them.
Sex is something private and you should put things in place to keep it so. You may also have to let him/her know that also and explain that you made a mistake by not securing the room, assuming that you were in your bedroom or so and not in the living room.
2006-07-14 02:21:36 · answer #3 · answered by awaxa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all what is a doauther? Generally, they leave the area and at sometime if they want to talk about the incident you discuss it with them. If not let it go and don't bring it up. Just let it go, establish some privay rules and it shouldn't happen again.
2006-07-14 02:13:45 · answer #4 · answered by jodie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because that would be traumatic to the child, and they would not completely understand it (even if they've had sex ed), I would talk to them about it. Not lecture them, just make sure that they understood. Then I would install a lock on the door so they would have to knock.
2006-07-14 02:09:47 · answer #5 · answered by Amber E 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a parent or as the teen seeing the parents? As a teenager...My reaction would be aaaaahhh!!!! Noooooo!!!! Why?!?!?!?!?(not out loud, just my trauma area of the brain) then awkwardly try to act like nothing ever happened! As the parent, I would be embarassed and uncomfortable....
2006-07-14 03:32:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My reaction would be to apologize from them....but still i wud be discreet not to create such a situation. Still if I am the father and my daughter sees it i wud not bother that much...as she should know how manly im
2006-07-14 02:32:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When still in the act of having sex stop right away.
2006-07-14 02:22:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did this happen to you? If so, you should have stopped right in the act, put on your pants and asked them to teach you how to spell.
2006-07-14 02:08:12 · answer #9 · answered by Kim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dr Ruth says that you should explain to them basically what is going on
2006-07-14 02:10:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋