How come it's okay for you to ask us ladies certain questions (like "Do you consider yourself impatient, touchy, etc.), but when we switch and start asking you the same types of questions, you disappear? I know not all guys do this, but just wondering why some do.
2006-07-13 18:28:59 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I believe that this falls under the category of the differences between the two sexes.
Women, overall, do a much better job expressing themselves and communicating then men do. This is not a blanket statement but it is true.
Men don't always feel as comfortable expressing themselves. Sometimes it is a macho thing. Sometimes they are too embarrassed by their answer and they do not want to be seen as weak or gay or different.
As a man gets older, it is easier for him to answer those questions.
Guys and girls must learn that the only way to have a successful and loving relationship is to build a relationship based on love, honesty, trust and wide open communication.
I hope this answered your question.
2006-07-13 18:36:38 · answer #1 · answered by mgctouch 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because some women will remember those answers and used them like 4 years later when there is an argument and throw it in our faces! And we're like "where did that come from?"
2006-07-13 18:33:56 · answer #2 · answered by Andrew P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is because guys are very different than females. When guys fell like they are close to you they will open up. Guys try to keep there man hood by showing there tuff. They do not want you to ask questions like that because they fill as if they are losing thier man hood.
2006-07-13 18:32:55 · answer #3 · answered by john d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever ask me? I hope I wont do that.
Well, about the others, let me tell you that this is just not the case with we males; it depends on the person irrespective of sex, caste, creed, nationality or religion for that matter.
2006-07-13 19:01:35 · answer #4 · answered by sharma.kulbhushan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But why not ask your questions also relating to guys instead asking the questions that purely are to girls and no vice.
2006-07-13 18:33:46 · answer #5 · answered by Tucson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because your talking to younger guys... Older guys wont disappear!
2006-07-13 18:34:00 · answer #6 · answered by wittster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they don't really care about you. They are just trying to act considerated but have no interest in persuing a relationship.
2006-07-13 19:29:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i usually invite the dicussion personally, but in reference to other guys, they're probably just unsure of themselves, and avoid any type of attention that they perceive as negative towards them
2006-07-13 18:35:26 · answer #8 · answered by Jeff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys don't know how or don't think they are supposed to talk about their feelings. It's kind of feminine.
2006-07-13 18:30:19 · answer #9 · answered by martin h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one should ask any question that is inproper to another person
2006-07-13 18:33:32 · answer #10 · answered by ldp999000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋