My boyfriend has told me that if I ever cheat or leave him for another man he is going to beat the guy to death or near death. He tells me if I still want the guy after he gets through with him then I can have him. but he(my boyfriend ) will mess him up so bad he( the other man) will need a tube to breath, eat, and pee. So should I be worried? Should I get out now or just know that when or if I ever leave him it's not for anyone else?
2006-07-13 18:21:21 · 13 answers · asked by mystic_rage879 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I just asked him if i could work at a pool hall as a waitress. He say he wouldn't want me to because he already worries about men tring to hit on me where i'm at now. I asked if he was a jelouse guy and he said yes. I asked him if he would ever hit a female he said no his mother always said don't hit women. So do I have anything to worry about now? He seems ok.....right?
2006-07-13 18:51:24 · update #1
Depending upon..how well you know your boyfriend...Only you can really answer that..Do u know what he's capable of? If you know that he can do the things that he's telling you he'll do..Then you should be worried...But if you feel that he's all talk and just playing then I think u should still be worried...But not as much!
Because you never know to what extent a person may go..Just watch what u do...
2006-07-13 18:31:09 · answer #1 · answered by BoSs_LaDii 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dearl Lord honey---beware of this guy. He sounds like trouble. He has a posessive streak, and that's never good. Find out if he beat any of his ex's or what that situation was. If he was kidding, I hope he was, then maybe you can let it slide. I'd keep throwing out tests for him and see what his response is. Like, if you have a male friend and say you're going to hang out with him to see a movie, see what this guy's response is. Use your imagination for a story. If he starts getting jealous, omg---please try and give some distance between you and him and consider leaving. Or if he's a good listener, you could always talk and say it makes you uncomfortable and you cannot have a long-term relationship with someone that makes you feel frightened in that way. Good luck!
2006-07-14 01:27:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out now,
That is over possessiveness, which may turn into voilence towards you.
My boyfriend jokes about what he would do to a guy if he found me in bed with him, But he doesnt describe it, and wouldnt actually do it.
He is very insecure, and It may cause you problems later, if you have any male friends - he might get overly jealous and possessive.
If i was you, I would run a mile
2006-07-14 01:38:11 · answer #3 · answered by e a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just overprotective and also a red-flag sign in a relationship. He's insecure about himself and about your trust and commitment to him. You can back out, but fear of being hurt physically is big. If you do decide to break away from him, make sure you wait long enough to find someone new.
2006-07-14 01:25:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out now.
This guy is threatening you and/or another guy he doesn't even know.
This threatening and violent behavior could turn to you.
I'd suggest you get counseling and a restraining order against him.
I wish you the best of luck in getting safely away from him.
2006-07-14 01:27:07 · answer #5 · answered by xo_pina_colada_ox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, just remember the old saying - barking dogs wont bite !! He is so insecure, he is threatening you to ensure that you wont leave him. Tell him, love cannot be held by threats.
2006-07-14 01:26:40 · answer #6 · answered by deebeein 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him, I mean you can be jealous but, that's a bit extreme!!!
But if you love him and never cheat on him, there's nothing to worry about anyway!!!
2006-07-14 01:25:50 · answer #7 · answered by Miley#1Fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he appears to be violent towards you then yeah. Don't cheat and you wont have anything to worry about.
2006-07-14 01:26:05 · answer #8 · answered by Pinky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice would be to sleep with all of your enemies. Plus, it seems like you're not blowing him enough - he sounds so tense!
2006-07-14 01:25:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um well first of all i would tell some one and i would forget about him id be scared if i were you dont let him find out about who you date
2006-07-14 01:24:41 · answer #10 · answered by The problem solver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋