he tells me he really loves me.. he has shown it to me in so many ways.. but he tells methat when he goes out with the guys and some of them tempt him to look at a hot chic he tells me that he always turns his head away to not look at the girl or he does not chek her out. He tells me that and i find no reason why he should be telling me that. Guys are guys.. but he claims to be so faithful to me and that he loves me but should i believe him that he really does not "chek out a hot chik" here and there ? should i believe my bf that he does not check out GIRLS at all but me??
2006-07-13 18:20:24 · 16 answers · asked by Dr. Truth 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is lying, it's human nature to look when something nice walks by. he wouldn't be labeling them as hot chicks if he didn't think they were hot. he would call them average chicks. you are going down the wrong road if you think you can be his everything. he has to look at other women to realize how special you are.
2006-07-14 12:55:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't know when it became his responsibility or that he felt it was his responsibility, to tell you that he doesn't check out girls or any hot chicks, when he isn't with you? I think if he is a healthy, normal guy, it is okay to look at whomever he wants, look all he wants but there's no touching anything or anybody!! I bet he is the kind of guy who is thinking of you!!! So as long as he has shown you he loves you and you are confident in yourself and your relationship, then don't worry!!! Make sure you go out and have fun too!!! : ) It's ok for you to check out guys too!!
2006-07-13 18:28:19 · answer #2 · answered by Laurie S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i imagine it partly relies upon on how lengthy you've been jointly. yet to anticipate him now to not envision out different females or watch porn is style of searching ahead to a lot. those issues are as organic as respiration to men. yet what are your selections the following? no matter if you do not believe him, you mustn't confront him with some thing he's executed, because you have not any reason to believe he's genuinely executed some thing (yet besides). you'll believe him till he promises a sturdy reason now to not. you won't be able to blame him for some thing without even giving him a probability to do some thing, be it proper or incorrect.
2016-11-02 01:02:07 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest with you.. All men check out girls.. Admit when you see a man,you look too..He does not cheat by looking at other woman..He still loves you..He still comes home to you..Stop beating yourself up about it and start learning to trust your man..It will kill the relationship if you don't....It's like saying you don't trust him.. Do you?..If you don't see him do it,you really can't accuse him of it.. If you don't see it with your own eyes,you need to believe him..Until you see him being distrustful,showing disrespect,or find that he's lieing to you,trust that man...Take care of you...The man will follow..
2006-07-13 18:38:57 · answer #4 · answered by blueboyswoman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he keeps telling u about it then he must have a problem with it. i have looked at plenty of gurls. id look if a gurl came in with a mini skirt and a loose tank top and id try to grap a peep but that doesnt mean i would go any father. i would never cheat on my wife but i also dont go around tring to explane it either maby he just has a complex
2006-07-13 18:26:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi just wanted to tell you you can't prevent a guy from checking hot chik as you call them it is just natural even if they say they are faithful to you l am married and it doesn't prevent my husband to look at other girls but l know that he loves me if he wants you to think that he doesn't look at other girl than you its up to you to b elieve or not as long as he doesn't leave you for another one you can't blame him for looking only he can look not touch
2006-07-13 18:31:59 · answer #6 · answered by ginie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm no. That's not natural. I am sure you have checked out a few hot guys. Don't feel bad cause checking and cheating are different.
2006-07-13 18:26:22 · answer #7 · answered by doesitmatter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All men look at other women, just as us girls look at other men. There is nothing wrong with just looking. The problem is when they start to flirt or try hooking up with someone else.
2006-07-13 18:23:50 · answer #8 · answered by bebe1028 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he goes out and sees a hot chick you'll get all the good lovin later, plus if he comes home to you and wants to make love your still #1
2006-07-13 18:24:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he looks at girls, u shouldnt believe him
2006-07-13 18:34:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋